Love is a lie

[vlad321]

Moongoddess256 said:
Textbook definition of love (from when I took human sexuality class) is a combination of companionship, intimacy, and passion. You take it long distance you lose the passion and most of the intimacy. Thats why long distance fails so often. Also relationships are most prone to failure around 6 months to a year from when you first have sex due to the sex chemicals effect wearing off. After those wear off, your running off of your real compatibility alone and the chemicals may have previously made people oblivious to relationship ending flaws in the other.

My point is, neither the distance or your timing of adding distance wasn't good for things. Also that soulmate and whatever stuff isn't real, but there is in fact so such thing as love. And since there is no soulmate and theres plenty of fish in the sea... you shouldn't have too much trouble finding another.

 

No, the first 6 months you can't say you are in love at all because that's not love, you just want to fuck. Love is over the long distance, and it's mostly attachment, with intamacy sprinkled in. And also, the passion and intimacy can exist just fine over the long distance, you just have to find it in different ways, but it they do exist.

But yes,  there's no bullshit like a single soulmate. I'd be royally fucked if there was but I'm not so ha!, screw you poets.