Flow said:
Do you know why i compared the woman to a tiger? It's not because the woman is actually a threat. It's because platonically loving a woman kills you inside. Doing nothing about this love kills you inside, you need to know if you have a chance with her and go for it or that it's going nowhere and move on and forget her, or else the pain can be unbearable.
Love is irrational, yes. But you need to be rational when going to talk to the girl, try to get her to like you instead of "hey you're hot let's get busy?" or something, like the OP did. And this is what i was trying to explain with a nice, simple and bloody metaphor to help the OP stop suffering. Of course, maybe it's not love that he is feeling. |
ROTFLMBO - didn't you have a prob with a girl in a thread about love - and within a week or two, you have mad advice? Look, all I can do is tell about my success and failures - and what works for most guys I know. I don't know you - and from the post about you stalking your prey and everything sounds like you drew bow in a deer hunt. It's not a game, kid - it's life. You can look at a women as prey (ok, women in a pack count) and maybe it works for you - but cats I've seen try that end up complaining they don't get out much. Just sayin'.
Oh yeah - I remember our views of love are different - and pretty much completely opposite. Infatuation will leave you dazed, confused and believing you got hit by an 18-wheeler. Love - for most of my running buddies - is thinking things out and leaving irrational behaviour in the dust.
I was being sarcastic as far as that - but back in the day when I was a heathen, I got some action by acting just like that.
You can pretty much look at a babe and talk to her for a minute or two and see where her head's at. I haven't been shot down in nearly 10 years.