ctk495 said:
LOL people I overreacted seriously today at school nothing happen so I have got over it now.So just to clarify here I'll tell you what happend.First of all the thread of "I got rejected" was a joke and I requested the ban from onyxmeth we were just fooling around an I was bored and I thought than that would make the thread epic that's all that there is too it.Also previously I made a "my life is boring" thread were I was asking advice about girls and stuff.
Now what happend yesterday was that I was talking with a friend over msn and we were joking in the end he told me to ask this girl to the dance.He told me that I would be better ask her through the phone rather than msn.So I ask her on msn her phone number and she inmeditley gave it to me.
-Note : before you continue reading this.The invitation was a more of a friends thing since she has a boyfriend I wanted her to come with me as friends and nothing more than that.
So I call her and I don't know why the heck I was scared but this is how the converstion went:
Ctk: Hello
Girl:Hey
Ctk: Are you (insert name of girl here)
Girl:yes
Ctk: Hey with who are you going to the dance?
Girl: Umm well I'm going with a friend and a guy.
Ctk(Nervous voice): So you wanna go with me (I seriously regret saying this but after asking so many people advice then I thought that it would be ok).
Girl: Well I'm don't really want to go to that dance and(I can't remenber well what she told me but I'm sure there was a part were she in a sort of way told me that it would be wrong if we go together since she has a boyfriend and the only reason she was going was because her friend was going too with the guy her friend has a crush on)
Ctk*thinking*(Should I invite her somewhere else like a friend told me?)
Ctk: bye.
Girl:bye.
Well that's it fellows that's what happend so I thought I messed up and I got scare as hell and then I couldn't sleep and I end up talking to my friend and other people about this and I made this thread.
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Man, I would have told you *no* too. She doesn't know you - and you could be a twirp. Seriously, you should have rolled at her like this:
CTK: Hello, may I speak to ________
Girl: Yes, who's this?
CTK: This is a guy in your home ec class. I am the guy in the lumberjack shirt.
Girl: Oh yeah - that guy.
CTK: Look, I would love to get to know you better. What kinda plans did you have for lunch tommorrow?
Girl: Hmmm ... nothing really - maybe I'll eat with my friends.
CTK: Cool. If you are free, I'd enjoy eating with you and getting to know you.
Girl: We'll see.
CTK: Ok, I have to go and spill my guts online. I'll talk to you later.
Girl: Hee hee ... that's funny.
CTK: Ok, I'll let you go.
Seriously, you have to ask yourself - why are you crazy about her? You have to find a focal point and find out her interest. Talk to her friends - ask them what she likes. And make sure they don't tell her - but hay, telling her could be a good thing.
Maybe next time ...
