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d21lewis said:
Why rape? Usually, if I cry enough, the lady will just give it to me!

But seriously, I dated a girl who was raped before. Understandably, it made her crazy. I would try to get intimate with her, and she would cover her head up with a pillow. Eventually, I quit talking to her. Nothing I could say would comfort her. Now she's with some jerk who treats her like shit.

This. After that kind of abuse, women feel they deserve to get treated like crap. It takes a special man to be patient with a woman who has been raped/molested. I tell you - you really have to keep your eye on the prize and forgive her often - and you could have a jewel in the rough.