Home is not available yet. So i you would need to wait to make comparisons between home and live. But as it stands now, if multiplayer games are your thing the 360 is the place to go. Better matchmaking, connections, reliability and larger amount of multiplayyer games at this time. You can DL games, demo's and movies for both. Again the 360 has the advantage because of background downloading and sequential DL's up to 5. #60 has music videos available for free and the ability to rent/purchase full movies and television shows. I DLed a south park episode for free the other day. The PS3 has not got off the ground yet in terms of online.
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