Can an individual have an opinion? Geez, you people are not helping the TC by getting into discussions with one another regarding racism, if an elderly couple having sex is attractive, and what not.
TC: Your feelings are perfectly normal. Many will say that being grossed out by two dudes having sex while ALSO finding bestiality gross, is fucked up and what not. It's just the example you chose to use.
We're most likely not born with a determined mindset on what we find gross or not, I'm sure that our education/culture/life experiences, etc; all take part in how we develop that dislike towards certain things. I think eating certain animals is gross, for other people that's something they have no reaction to. If I don't find 600 pounders attractive, that doesn't mean that I hate them or even dislike overweight people; I just don't find them physically attractive. Same goes for 60 year old ladies, same goes for children, same goes for head-to-toe tattooed people, etc. Its just preferences that I have and that doesn't either define me, or make me an asshole.
I assume most of us are living in the West, and that's why most users are trying to impose THEIR points of view unto those that disagree with them. Stop questioning why someone doesn't like black females, if they don't THEY DON'T and it isn't YOUR BUSINESS to try to change their feelings or make them feel/admit they're something they're not.
I like dudes, I like females to a certain extent. Why is it that I prefer slim men over overweight men? I don't know, it is what it is. Why is it that I prefer slim ladies over overweight ladies? I Don't Know, I just find them more attractive.
TC: Be yourself, live your lifestyle. I admire the fact that you want to "improve" who you are as a human. But you don't own SHIT to anyone here. Do not force yourself to watch gay/lesbian porn just because Chun-Li wants you to. I won't watch black women getting plowed just because Chun-Li wants me to.