what's even going on?

You should insecure bra! Sounds like you like her more than a friend aswell hehehe

OP needs to make a move or he may get friend zoned if he hasn't already. 

Don't listen to them shamers, they clearly haven't learned how to reflect and see things from different perspectives to truly understand or they are just insensitiv assholes who have experienced it themselves and are shaming you to free themselves from their own sha

You have a crush on her, she uintentionally hurt your feelings, you stressed out and confused her and she stressed out and confronted you, you got even more stressed out cause you didn't know how to filter your emotions, you ended up hurting her back uintentionally.

This is textbook, the experience will hopefully grow on you and remember.

One advice: Always expect the worst and hope for the best, apply that to girl and you will be better prepared.

Never fall for the hype or the daydreams.

Also, once again, don't give a shit about what people insinuate about you, people on this siste does it every day at most part and that is why we don't take anyone or anything on the internet seriously but never dismiss them, all that matters in the end is kindness.

Exactly what I was thinking lol. 

LOL

This is cute.

Girls don't like boys that need a lot of attention"needy guys" just give her time and space and she will say "hey, what's up" like nothing happened. I don't want to offend you but it sounds like you're the one being bitchy towards her, she said she wanted to play with her other friend and that's ok, you should not feel bad or angry about that. That could be a problem if you have a real relationship, your girl is going to think that you're too possessive. 

So even if you're angry about it, next time try to be cool with the situation. 

This man understands, this man speaks the truth. OP, listen to this man.

I like you Bary, you always make an effort to say something of substance.

I'm surprised she didn't delete you from her friend's list after acting like that.

LOL. I feel like I am in high school again...

Another obsessive attention seeker, see a therapist, not healthy. Especially for relationships, thanks for the example.