So I was going through Jessica Jones again, and just finished it again 

and even though I tried to force myself it isnt a good show 

She's sooo boring to watch , and I think while what happened to her is dark , she comes off as trying to hard to be edgy , her actress isnt that good

everyone does soooo soooo much stupid stuff , especially the guys my lawd the guys are all so trash, the payoff is so trash , the lesbian lawyer arc felt really unnecessary or could have had rduced screentime and the payoff for it was weak and bleh 

jessica is kinda dumb too 

surprised its meta is higher than daredevil and flash the supporting characters in both are way better, its way more engaging and exciting and the actions scenes in both are good

I enjoyed that series actually I prefer Daredevil though

I'm just scared feminist will come to my house and beat me up if I say anything negative

Are you so insecure in your opinion, that you needed to not only complete the series once, but twice?  I mean, if you didn't like it, fine, but it sounds like you went out of your way to watch it again just to complain about it.

There is a lot of scenes of her doing nothing.

I thought it was alright there were a bunch of filler scenes and the sex scenes were just annoying soft core pornos but overall it was alright but it doesnt hold a candle to daredevil.

I agree. It's mostly Meh. I kept thinking there was going to be a payoff or good ending.

The problem is that the show runners do a pretty good job "keeping it real" in that they don't overuse her abilities for no reason. So, when you watch this, you kind of expect something more "super" to happen and it never really does.
I can accept that the show is really more of a character drama. But, like the OP says, so many people do stupid things and the main actress seems like she is try so hard to "not care" like her character is supposed to, it comes across like I shouldn't care either.

I watched the first season once(more than enough). I may watch season 2, as that seems to be where shows either get the small things fixed and get better or they crash and burn all together. We will see...

friends like it , some ofwhom i rate their opinion

repeat viewings too see if i missed anything 

i didnt 

i dont think its good 

Eh...  I mean fine.  I liked it, but I'm not going to argue.  Seems weird that your friends opinions caused you to second guess your own but w/e.