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Mr Khan said:
Nah, i resolved no-contact over the holidays to keep me sane and enjoying the holidays, although that backfired somewhat in that now *i'm* not feeling the attraction that much anymore, so i'll see how things play this week. Fortunately or unfortunately (because it's in a part of town that's awkward to get to and it's going to be very cold this week) there's another happy hour at a bar that i HAVE to go to now that i'm a part of student government, so i could invite her, see her, w/e

Got too relaxed over Christmas, throws me off my game.




.. you'll react to her when you see her again... if not.. well.. we'll always have trashleg's stories to listen to...



 

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NiKKoM said:
Mr Khan said:
Nah, i resolved no-contact over the holidays to keep me sane and enjoying the holidays, although that backfired somewhat in that now *i'm* not feeling the attraction that much anymore, so i'll see how things play this week. Fortunately or unfortunately (because it's in a part of town that's awkward to get to and it's going to be very cold this week) there's another happy hour at a bar that i HAVE to go to now that i'm a part of student government, so i could invite her, see her, w/e

Got too relaxed over Christmas, throws me off my game.




.. you'll react to her when you see her again... if not.. well.. we'll always have trashleg's stories to listen to...

Hey, i'd rather react myself. Better to burn out than fade away and all.



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Finally there will be "action" today.. Remember that you DON'T KNOW her score for that test.. Just be friendly, ask how her holidays were, ask how she did on her test.. Say that you are there if she needs any help with that class.. And if it turning out that she is a goner and needs to quit that study because of bad grades.. At least ask her out.. You owe it to yourself... & all of us in this thread..



 

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tag her and bag her



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kirby007 said:
tag her and bag her

I actually shocked its almost 5 months since the creation of this thread.. so yes maybe you should follow Kirby007's advice...



 

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You are creepy as fuck.

Pick up the phone, call and ask her out?

If she is not crazy she would reject you instantly. I know I would if I were her, taking months to decide if I am good enough for you to ask me out? I am not attractive enough for you to ask me out on the spot? Rejected. And every other girl after will do the same until you learn that what you are doing isn't because you are shy or anxious. You are a spoiled coward who has a problem of not getting what he asks for. Mommy said no too many times to you as a boy?

Getting to know her test results like that. Who does that? Creep.



LurkerJ said:
You are creepy as fuck.

Pick up the phone, call and ask her out?

If she is not crazy she would reject you instantly. I know I would if I were her, taking months to decide if I am good enough for you to ask me out? I am not attractive enough for you to ask me out on the spot? Rejected. And every other girl after will do the same until you learn that what you are doing isn't because you are shy or anxious. You are a spoiled coward who has a problem of not getting what he asks for. Mommy said no too many times to you as a boy?

Getting to know her test results like that. Who does that? Creep.

Can't fault you on the last point, though i'd disagree on the latter point; i'm not too fussed about getting rejected by her, i'm fussed about that happening in front of other people, and the issue is keeping the matter personal.



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NiKKoM said:
kirby007 said:
tag her and bag her

I actually shocked its almost 5 months since the creation of this thread.. so yes maybe you should follow Kirby007's advice...

On that matter, Wednesday is no longer the day of movement: there *is* no guaranteed day of movement anymore. New semester, no shared classes this time around, you see.

Full willing to let this thread drop, though. I've got the initial foundation in place, which is what i needed help on. The rest depends more or less on my schedule and her interest level.



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Mr Khan said:

Full willing to let this thread drop, though. I've got the initial foundation in place, which is what i needed help on. The rest depends more or less on my schedule and her interest level.




Yes thats Chuck Norris punching you in the face... and yes you have a start, a small foundation, but you really need to expand it.. soon..  We talked about this.. but be more assertive.. you can't let a really minor thing like your schedule let get in between you and her.. don't say to me that your school has different lunch times for everyone.. its not that hard to send a text with: "hey how is it going, did you have a good holiday, wanna grab lunch at school?"

I guarantee you there will be a day that you'll see her sitting with some other dude, having lunch together, and smiling to eachother.. and then you think: "Damn... maybe I should have asked her out before that guy did"



 

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NiKKoM said:
Mr Khan said:

Full willing to let this thread drop, though. I've got the initial foundation in place, which is what i needed help on. The rest depends more or less on my schedule and her interest level.




Yes thats Chuck Norris punching you in the face... and yes you have a start, a small foundation, but you really need to expand it.. soon..  We talked about this.. but be more assertive.. you can't let a really minor thing like your schedule let get in between you and her.. don't say to me that your school has different lunch times for everyone.. its not that hard to send a text with: "hey how is it going, did you have a good holiday, wanna grab lunch at school?"

I guarantee you there will be a day that you'll see her sitting with some other dude, having lunch together, and smiling to eachother.. and then you think: "Damn... maybe I should have asked her out before that guy did"

Ever with the misinterpretations.

If i don't see her in person before the week is out, i'll text her about the happy hour on Friday. Meet, have a chance to catch up, proceed from there.

I got this.



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