VXIII said: The way I see it, her kind of "issues" seems to be a true test of a relationship. Was there a reason that she couldn't figure out her "stuff" through this relationship ? Were you dominating her life that she needed a space ? There is nothing wrong in having other priorities while you are committed to your partner. I'm not sure how to say this in english, but I always thought that a true relationship is a thing to figure out other things by. Not sure if that make sense. Well, Focus on that CPA exam, seems to be the best thing to do. |
I don't get the feeling I was dominating her life, but she has definitely had significant changes as a result of dating me, yes. I felt like I was extremely open with her progressing how she wanted to progress.
But as I just said in my last post, how I interpreted, and how she interpreted it could be completely different. Perhaps she truly felt that it was me influencing who she ultimately became, and that isn't what she wanted. But I also told her that if we do stay friends, even as a friend, I will have an influence on her life still.
Money can't buy happiness. Just video games, which make me happy.