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Tbh I am fine without one at the present, no speedy urges to get one either, I'd much rather stay single until I at least finish university, as vain as it may be, I think it'll be too expensive or me to maintain one at the present. Maybe later on in live when they don't care as much about the next edition of Ugg boots or some kind of leather coat. Not condoning relationships, I just think that most relationships prior to about the age of ~24 are just experiences, nothing serious, again, just my opinion.



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Bleh.. Bunch of boys who afraid for feelings.. Open up to love! You might have already walked past the love of your life cause you are afraid to be hurt.. Not many girls will wait for you to open up, so I hope that today, if someone asks you to be here valentine to accept. And experience love.



WillyoubemyValentine said:

Bleh.. Bunch of boys who afraid for feelings.. Open up to love! You might have already walked past the love of your life cause you are afraid to be hurt.. Not many girls will wait for you to open up, so I hope that today, if someone asks you to be here valentine to accept. And experience love.

You should check out eHarmony



Disconnect and self destruct, one bullet a time.

This is different based on the individual. Many people who evaluate personalities define a personality heavily on if they need relationships. Judging by your experience you probably value relationships less than some. If you valued relationships at some point you would find the couarge to make one. People who must have a reltionship for happiness will consistantly have them because they almost need them to live.

Obviously, you want a relationship or you would not ask for advice, so I say you have to try at some point no matter the awkwardness our anxiety it makes for you because it will make you fell better about yourself and at least you tried.

Woman also suck, I fought a dude the other day over my on and off girlfriend which is really annoying because she will be leaving to another state soon. Than I had to listen to her friends analyze me when they thought I passed out. Good riddance. It has been worth it overall though.



Another thing... if a girl likes you because you are well Look than dont go out with her... in my opinion Girls must love guys for what they are not for what they look... Damn guys do that not girls... and this cames for a guy with 6pack that does gym all the day and has a body with 6% of Fat and has 175cm with 77KG.

So i mean Girls are difficult to understand , u need to know how to talk and than get ready to hear their bullshits all the time like "im fat" or "im ugly" or many more things... oh you will know what im talking about soon...

Another thing if u use glasses like me use contacts like me and the most important thing... For f*** sake never forget this : BE YOURSELF!!! ALLWAYS!



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Reach said:t
his cames for a guy with 6pack that does gym all the day and has a body with 6% of Fat and has 175cm with 77KG.

We want pictures as it is well known that game systems break if an attractive guy who has other hobbies tries to play them.



chocoloco said:
Reach said:t
his cames for a guy with 6pack that does gym all the day and has a body with 6% of Fat and has 175cm with 77KG.

We want pictures as it is well known that game systems break if an attractive guy who has other hobbies tries to play them.

Im not Native so didnt understand really well what u said... u want a pic of me ?? i have posted pics before in bodybuilding topic... i made it... but i can post some here yes tomorrow or so... it its not that that i dont know Lol

Never say a girl ur athletic if ur not even if u have great shape... Be yourself...



Reach said:
chocoloco said:
Reach said:t
his cames for a guy with 6pack that does gym all the day and has a body with 6% of Fat and has 175cm with 77KG.

We want pictures as it is well known that game systems break if an attractive guy who has other hobbies tries to play them.

Im not Native so didnt understand really well what u said... u want a pic of me ?? i have posted pics before in bodybuilding topic... i made it... but i can post some here yes tomorrow or so... it its not that that i dont know Lol

Never say a girl ur athletic if ur not even if u have great shape... Be yourself...

I agree, but usually I don't have to tell them I'm in great shape because they can see it in the clothes I wear. I agree be yourself because if they cannot except you than you better be doing it just to get pussy.



highwaystar101 said:

I'm afraid I feel sorry for your friends to be quite honest.

I've broke up with women in the past, and to be honest most of the time I felt happier because of it. If I'm thinking of breaking up with someone then I'm obviously not happy in the relationship, breaking up with someone in that case is usually a relief. And if you're the one who is being broke up with then it can be tough, but in the end would you rather be with someone who resents you, or be looking for a new partner?

It can be hard, but in the end break ups are usually good for the people involved in the end.

I think they rather always end up good in the end....No way if you or she/he feel like breaking up the relation will be an happy one for the rest of your life...Not breaking up while you feel like doing it is just a waste of time and life (ofcourse when it is a long time you think like that)

Honestly also never felt sad because of breaking up...not feeling like throwing a party aswell so long she was happy I am happy..   

Well the people who really get very sad are in my eyes most of the time just weak..  I mean don't have set up a goal in their life;. The kind of people who are between 25-30 and think they can only achieve happiness if they have a gf or bf...  And if Say the same words to those kind of people they get mad and say it is not true...But when they found someone and later break up the first thing they do is come to me and cry a lot about how their life has no meaning anymore and they want to die >_> or even worse they have a bf who beats her up occasionaly or cheats with other women but she always returns to him because of the attitude 'It is better to be with him than being alone.. (I am pretty sure everyone knows those kind of people) ...

Sadly they only understan what I mean whey are like 40-45 finally divorce and finally can set up a goal in their life...Depending on someone else to make you happy is wrong the only who can really make you happy is yourself;...




 

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