"What do you think about my sexual development?" - Weird as hell, but I've seen worse.
"Is the attraction to children, by itself, wrong?" - Not really. Just unfortunate.
"Do you believe just like gays, pedophiles have no control over who their attracted to and shouldn't be judged?" - Basically. I would argue a few of the semantics, but I don't think pedophiles are necessarily guilty of wrongdoing.
"Is fantasizing about children wrong?" - Tricky, but I'm going to say no.
"Is age play wrong?" - If anything, it's better than conventional fantasizing.
Fetishes are weird.
Love and tolerate.