WessleWoggle said: Is it normal to feel apprehensive?

Very. Experiences like this always do a number to your nerves.

Blacksaber said: I expected this to be like your other thread but it's not...Anyway good luck!

You expected it to be like my last thread?

You expected everyone to tell me not do it, me having to defend myself, me making up poor excuses on purpose for lulz causing some people to think it was a joke, and then a innapropriate story about what happened and why it failed?

That's what happened in my last thread.

tedsteriscool said: WessleWoggle said: Is it normal to feel apprehensive? Very. Experiences like this always do a number to your nerves.

Doesn't help that I only two hours sleep.

He's supposed to call back at 6:00pmish and we're going to discuss where we'll meet...

Seece said: scabab said: sigh gays.....how pathetic. And with someone nearly twice your age. Abnormal creature. I did your dad last night

LMAO.

WessleWoggle said: I plan to ask lots of questions.

sounds like a relatively good starter conversation. when the topic of relationships comes up, make sure you explicitely ask him what he is looking for. last person i was with i inadvertently led on and it got worse and worse until we cut off all contact with each other. generally, if i'm going to get with someone, i like to go on at least 3 or 4 dates before anything sexaul happens, that way i have a valid enough opinion of them before i choose to (or not for that matter) to get physically involved with them.

SimonSaysFYou said: WessleWoggle said: I plan to ask lots of questions. sounds like a relatively good starter conversation. when the topic of relationships comes up, make sure you explicitely ask him what he is looking for. last person i was with i inadvertently led on and it got worse and worse until we cut off all contact with each other. generally, if i'm going to get with someone, i like to go on at least 3 or 4 dates before anything sexaul happens, that way i have a valid enough opinion of them before i choose to (or not for that matter) to get physically involved with them.

This is a great strategy. My guy proposed that we'd wait at least 3 days together before we were intimate. It helps you bond with the other person based off of personality first, body second. You don't want your reltionship revolved around sex (or do you?).

WessleWoggle said: Chairman-Mao said: Umm don't you see anything wrong with hanging out with a 31 year old dude when your 17. Like I'm putting the gay part aside, and just focusing on the age difference. That's kinda wrong. Why? We're both humans who have needs. Does it really matter that he's lived 14 years longer?

Well I guess not if your consenting. Its none of my business what you do in your own time. 

tedsteriscool said: SimonSaysFYou said: WessleWoggle said: I plan to ask lots of questions. sounds like a relatively good starter conversation. when the topic of relationships comes up, make sure you explicitely ask him what he is looking for. last person i was with i inadvertently led on and it got worse and worse until we cut off all contact with each other. generally, if i'm going to get with someone, i like to go on at least 3 or 4 dates before anything sexaul happens, that way i have a valid enough opinion of them before i choose to (or not for that matter) to get physically involved with them. This is a great strategy. My guy proposed that we'd wait at least 3 days together before we were intimate. It helps you bond with the other person based off of personality first, body second. You don't want your reltionship revolved around sex (or do you?).

3 days? Seriously? Would that really be enough time?

angrypoolman said: tedsteriscool said: SimonSaysFYou said: WessleWoggle said: I plan to ask lots of questions. sounds like a relatively good starter conversation. when the topic of relationships comes up, make sure you explicitely ask him what he is looking for. last person i was with i inadvertently led on and it got worse and worse until we cut off all contact with each other. generally, if i'm going to get with someone, i like to go on at least 3 or 4 dates before anything sexaul happens, that way i have a valid enough opinion of them before i choose to (or not for that matter) to get physically involved with them. This is a great strategy. My guy proposed that we'd wait at least 3 days together before we were intimate. It helps you bond with the other person based off of personality first, body second. You don't want your reltionship revolved around sex (or do you?). 3 days? Seriously? Would that really be enough time?

When you're around them 24 hours a day, yes.

Edit: For clarification, it wasn't 3 days after we just met. It was 3 days after we first met in person.