But my stereotypes likely apply to the majority of gays and basically every homosexual Ive seen or know. Is it an offense to call someone more sexually influenced than long term relationship influenced?

You know this yourself, you see few homosexuals settling down/having relationships together, but you see alot of feminine like males around and its obvious what they are looking for.

I think those replies were in bad taste, but for the most part, I haven't really seen anyone say "shut up" and "stop posting'. Stop being so butthurt.

So you took a look at dozens, maybe hundreds, of million of gay people and determine that the vast majority are promiscuous, effeminate, and unable to hold a relationship? Your kind of attitude towards homosexuals is sickening.

That is the most stupid post I have read.

Firstly, many straight people do kiss in the streets. Just go out at night.

Secondly, some gay people go to the extreme because they are overcompensating for the oppression they feel or have their own personal hang-ups. It is silly to say that the Irish are somehow less gay than other nations. You might as well say the Saudis are the least gay nation on the planet. If people act in the way that you write then gay people are hardly going to come out shouting, barring the extremist types that do it your face.

Your opinion is only valid in terms of how you feel, but factually it is a mess. You cannot back up your statements with figures only some vague anecdotal and judgemental comments. Go and do some research and try doing it without your emotions getting in the way.

You might think about the fact that there are many desperate people in the world both homo and hetero that go out in the night, get drunk and sleep around. I'm pretty sure most people are looking to be accepted, loved and cared for. To somehow expect gay people to be massively different in their emotional needs is to not know what people have in common.

People love to focus on difference. We have so much more in common than we have differences, but the media, politics and the like focus on the differences, on negativity. It is a sad state of affairs.

6. Nobody was forcing beliefs upon anyone.

8. It was just a misunderstanding. Obviously I didn't "choose" to be that way when I was born. But are people born gay? Eh, they might be. I think thats where I was going with that.

9. Again, because I'm not sure whether you are born gay or not. Could it be that we have a choice absolutely.

10. Can you prove this?

11. You twisted my words. I didn't mean "marriage" I meant "gay marriage".

12. Sinned? Yes. Because "sinning" is christian/catholic based. Deserved to be killed? No. Only GOD can judge someone and he already said "thou shall not kill"

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1. Why does God even care about attraction anyway?

Answer - Your questioning the Almighty One?

2. So one man is attracted to another? Why is that an abomination?

Answer - Well I don't know if your religious or not, but it is an abomination to GOD because he created man in his image, and him a women to procreate. Adam and Eve.

3. Why do they deserve to burn in hellfire for it?

Answer - Well I'll leave GOD himself to answer that for you but knowing that its sinful to be gay and not caring is a sure way to hellfire.

4. Is it because the bible says so?

Answer - Well . . . yes.

5. Why does God want them to go to hell?

Answer - He doesn't that is why he teaches those who believe his ways and asks them to spread the word.

I do oppose the existence of "gay leader" and how SOME gays are trying to create a "gay culture". That makes no fucking sense >.< Again, pride and trying to create your own culture only alienates yourself and sets yourself apart as being different, than the same, as everyone else.

Being gay is a sexual orientation, not a life style, not a ideolgy, etc. I hope that there's a back lash, just as like there has been with Atheists (who've begun to start criticizing the word Atheism itself) recently, within the gay community at any attempt within to try to group, unite, and distinguish themselves through other means aside the simple fact of sexual orientation.

Gays don't need to be wearing a certain fashion, use lingo, hang out at gay bars (well, actually it makes practical sense for the sake of picking up people... so maybe not), etc. They should be asking to be seen no differently due to their sexual orientation, but it pains me to then see "gay leaders" fucking crush the whole point of gay rights and the movements by actually giving credence to what the bigots were saying. That because of their sexual orientation they are different, unique, etc. Sexual orientation doesn't do shit to your character! >.< That's why it's not worthy of shame or pride. That's why you don't have to act effeminetly, dress a certain way, hang out at certain places, etc.

It's both the bigots and those from within that are actually doing the same thing. One accuses, and one gives credence to the accuser.

@ Dtewi - You know as well as I do, you just don't want to admit it. Ive seen alot of gay people about on my travela, I rekon it's a fair indicator of the majority of gays. Pick out a part of my post that you think is un-true, or factually wrong.

@ Baz - Dude, I was in Glasgow over the weekend (shithole by the way) and I was walking along the street. Two lesbains were up ahead of me in the middle of the street in the city centre rubbing each others legs and snogging. One was dressed like a hooker and the other one was a big bulky girl (to replicate the male). I've never seen straight people do that, at least while they are sober. I then walked into a shopping centre and there was a feminine like male doing hairdressing with a really camp accent. I'm not saying gay people dont like meaningful relationships, I'm just saying they are less frequent among the community.

Also, Ireland is alot less 'gay' that most of the world because in comparison to the world few people immigrate here, and there is a far smaller population here than in other parts which means there are less homosexuals. Over here is also composed of around 95+% of the same race, compare that to New York for example.

@ Axumblade

And I respect you for that, also you'l find that I clearly stated that not all gays are like how I described, just the majority to me.

The Bible says many things, consistent and contradictory. Mainly because it was most likely to have been written by lots of different people (yes people, not god) and been re-written, edited, censored and so on. I don't think we should let some irrational faith dictate moral standards personally.

@ Akvod, but you know that alot of gays act differently than straight people, more camp and feminine. Being gay is more than just a sexual orientation, you can tell many homosexuals a mile off my the way they dress, talk and act. Others (like Axumblade Im guessing) are basically impossible to tell which indicates that they are more like the main population of the earth.