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appolose said:
The Ghost of RubangB said:
appolose said:
Not that I want to spawn another week-long debate, but...
Rubang,
When you say "They're humans, they're normal, and they deserve equal rights" you realize that would mean we would have to allow everything, right (except for the normal part, as homosexuality isn't in the norm (statistically speaking, I mean))? So, you must mean something else that would justify this behavior.

It is normal because it naturally occurs in humans and most other mammals.

It is acceptable because it doesn't harm anybody else.

If you're going to go by statistics, then blonde hair is abnormal.  I think we should treat being gay as if it were just as boring as being blonde.

And yes, I think we should allow everything that doesn't harm people.  I don't see how being born with a particular trait harms anybody.  If you're born gay, straight, blonde, white, black, male, female, or anything in between, or a midget or a hermaphrodite or with any mental or physical deformity or disability in any way, I don't think that should affect any legal status in any way.

What doesn't "naturally" occur in most species?  Certainly, murder, rape, and anything else do.

"I don't see how being born with a particular trait harms anybody".  Born a murderer?  Pedophile?

Finally, I could argue that you're being a "harm-o-phobe", but maybe I'll quite now ;)

 

Hahahhaa, nice.

I mean things that naturally occur that don't harm other people.  But even if something's unnatural or supernatural, if it doesn't harm other people without their consent, I don't see why anybody else should care.  Like if I wanted to have sex with an intelligent alien, who's gonna stop me?

 



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mrstickball said:

Legal benefits between consenting homosexuals is fine. One of the arguments is that gay culture isn't interested in monogamy.

For example:

  • 20% of homosexuals have had more than 51 sexual partners.
  • 8% have had more than 300 partners
  • 2.7% have had only 1 partner

The last study has also shown than "all couples with a relationship lasting more than 5 years have incorporated some provision for outside sexual activity in their relationships."...Do you realize how damning that is for benefits/acklowledgement for recognizing rights for a group of people that really aren't interested in monogamy?

I'm not trying to demonize homosexuals. But those are in fact, actual statistics about the community. With a culture that's not interested in marriage....Why should it be awarded that? How about every homosexual bath house is closed in America, in return for gay marriage? Would that be acceptable to the gay community?

Nice stereotyping.

I'm gay and in a monogamous relationship and I've probably had a lot fewer sexual partners than many of the straight people here. I don't know if you've noticed, but there is a huge movement for gay marriage... Do you really think the gay community would put so much effort into something we didn't want? Remember Prop 8 in California? Do you remember any organized resistance against it? Or do you think all gay people were fisting each other in bath houses?

If all the bath houses were closed today, I'd be incredibly happy. Those places are disgusting and spread diseases.

 

 



The Ghost of RubangB said:
appolose said:
The Ghost of RubangB said:
appolose said:
Not that I want to spawn another week-long debate, but...
Rubang,
When you say "They're humans, they're normal, and they deserve equal rights" you realize that would mean we would have to allow everything, right (except for the normal part, as homosexuality isn't in the norm (statistically speaking, I mean))? So, you must mean something else that would justify this behavior.

It is normal because it naturally occurs in humans and most other mammals.

It is acceptable because it doesn't harm anybody else.

If you're going to go by statistics, then blonde hair is abnormal.  I think we should treat being gay as if it were just as boring as being blonde.

And yes, I think we should allow everything that doesn't harm people.  I don't see how being born with a particular trait harms anybody.  If you're born gay, straight, blonde, white, black, male, female, or anything in between, or a midget or a hermaphrodite or with any mental or physical deformity or disability in any way, I don't think that should affect any legal status in any way.

What doesn't "naturally" occur in most species?  Certainly, murder, rape, and anything else do.

"I don't see how being born with a particular trait harms anybody".  Born a murderer?  Pedophile?

Finally, I could argue that you're being a "harm-o-phobe", but maybe I'll quite now ;)

 

Hahahhaa, nice.

I mean things that naturally occur that don't harm other people.  But even if something's unnatural or supernatural, if it doesn't harm other people without their consent, I don't see why anybody else should care.  Like if I wanted to have sex with an intelligent alien, who's gonna stop me?

 

Heh, OK, that satisfies me for a position (not that I agree with, but it's clear).

 



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appolose said:

Heh, OK, that satisfies me for a position (not that I agree with, but it's clear).

 

 

Really? Your exact same argument has been met with the same rebuttal at least once here before.

 



mrstickball said:
I think the problem is that the gays want acceptance by the marriage community, and little more.

Marriage is a union between 2 people, that was setup, and recommended by various religious institutions. Allowing gay marriage abridges those religious rights, since 99% of all established, formal, religions reject homosexuality as a proper context of marriage.

Give them civil unions, give them access to insurance and hospitals. Do not allow them to tread on churches that are against homosexuality...The issue is that we've blurred the lines between what marriage is (a union between a man and a woman, ordained by God) and a civil union (co-habitation with legal rights).

I don't think you can name 99 churches (i.e. denominations or religions) that disapprove of gay marriage for every one I can name that doesn't disaprove.  In fact, I challenge you to try. 

I'll go first:  United Church of Christ

And actually, marriage has been a political/economic/generally social arrangement at least as much as it has been a religious one. 

And I question how allowing gay marriages would "tread on" churches that disapprove.  How can gay marriage possibly abridge their rights?  Do you think that those churches will be forced to recognize said marriages?  If so, I agree that that's wrong, but I deny that that is what is being proposed. 

Banning gay marriage because some religions don't like it is like Muslim countries banning alcohol and pork even among Christians because it's against the Muslim religion.  Are we a theocracy now? 

If your problem is that you think that marriage is a term with inherently religious implications to the point that the state shouldn't even be "marrying" people in the first place, and would rather we strip that nomenclature from heterosexual unions and give them and gay unions equal standing in the law, I can respect that and would vote for it (because although I disagree with the first part it would be a solution nonetheless).  Is this the case?  (I think I might have already said something like this to you and if you've already answered in that earlier discussion I apologize for the repetition.)



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damkira said:
appolose said:
 

Heh, OK, that satisfies me for a position (not that I agree with, but it's clear).

 

 

Really? Your exact same argument has been met with the same rebuttal at least once here before.

 

I haven't made an argument yet.

 



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Final-Fan said:
mrstickball said:
I think the problem is that the gays want acceptance by the marriage community, and little more.

Marriage is a union between 2 people, that was setup, and recommended by various religious institutions. Allowing gay marriage abridges those religious rights, since 99% of all established, formal, religions reject homosexuality as a proper context of marriage.

Give them civil unions, give them access to insurance and hospitals. Do not allow them to tread on churches that are against homosexuality...The issue is that we've blurred the lines between what marriage is (a union between a man and a woman, ordained by God) and a civil union (co-habitation with legal rights).

I don't think you can name 99 churches (i.e. denominations or religions) that disapprove of gay marriage for every one I can name that doesn't disaprove.  In fact, I challenge you to try. 

I'll go first:  United Church of Christ

And actually, marriage has been a political/economic/generally social arrangement at least as much as it has been a religious one. 

And I question how allowing gay marriages would "tread on" churches that disapprove.  How can gay marriage possibly abridge their rights?  Do you think that those churches will be forced to recognize said marriages?  If so, I agree that that's wrong, but I deny that that is what is being proposed. 

Banning gay marriage because some religions don't like it is like Muslim countries banning alcohol and pork even among Christians because it's against the Muslim religion.  Are we a theocracy now? 

If your problem is that you think that marriage is a term with inherently religious implications to the point that the state shouldn't even be "marrying" people in the first place, and would rather we strip that nomenclature from heterosexual unions and give them and gay unions equal standing in the law, I can respect that and would vote for it (because although I disagree with the first part it would be a solution nonetheless).  Is this the case?  (I think I might have already said something like this to you and if you've already answered in that earlier discussion I apologize for the repetition.)

Ok. I'll start naming denominations against same-sex marriage:

  • Seventh Day Adventist
  • Baptist (about 20 different Baptist denominations are against it)
  • Church of Christ
  • Mormons (Latter Day Saints)
  • Church of the Nazerine
  • Eastern Orthodox
  • Jehovas Witness
  • Roman Catholocism
  • Church of God in Christ
  • Church of God (Cleveland, TN)
  • Assemblies of God
  • Canadian & American Reformed Churches
  • United Methodist (although some rogue churches disagree, the conference is against it)

I can keep naming them. Sufficive to say, the ones that do support it are in that 1% percentile both in membership and in # of denominations.

Now, as for how it affects the church, I would cite:

  • Ake Green. A pastor that spoke out against homosexuality, and was charged with hate speech in Sweden. 
  • Stephen Boission. A pastor in simiar circumstances as Ake Green, now charged with hate speech, and demanded to recant his position against homosexuality, in Alberta, Canada.

Just a few points to think about.



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I don't believe it's something gene relateed... but some sort of abnormality that takes place when a woman is pregnant with the would be child.

Studies have found all sorts of weird situations.

Gayness runs in familys... however it's also more likely to manifest in later children. Like a mothers 3rd kid 4th kid etc. (I believe.)



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