That involved you and another person - or more - doing crazy stuff (robbing a bank, kidnapping someone, having wild sex together) and you saw the person from your dream within a few days - and you wonder if they had the same dream but too scared to ask them?

I remember having a dream about a co-worker - and I didn't really even know her. In the dream, dang we got down. However, I saw her the next day and was like 'I wonder if she knows about the dream I had?' Even though we weren't close at the time, I was like 'I already know where this is going.' Fortunately, it didn't happen, but we ended up getting very, very close and she told me she was definitely feeling me big time.

Has this ever happened to you?

Well, I had a dream about this really hot girl at my school. We did... some stuff...

Yeah, anyway, the girl was in my english class. We were doing presentations the day after I had the dream and as luck would have it, she ended up in my group. It was pretty awkward talking to her, and I had a hard time looking at her (which she thankfully didn't notice).

Nothing happened later either, it just made that class really uncomfortable.

What are things like now? Did you ever get closer to her?

I had another dream about another co-worker where she invited to her room. I told a friend about the dream and he asked me if I was going anywhere with her in the near future. Matter of fact, I was. I was gonna fly out of this airport and thought about crashing at her mom's crib. I took the dream as a warning. Though she is hot, I know myself and didn't want to do anything I'd regret later.

Well, actually, nothing happened. I used to like her, but I'd given up any chance of being with her by the time I had that dream. Not long after that, I realized that she... wasn't exactly the best kind of girl on the planet, so I just moved on.

What sucks is that I know she liked me, and I could have asked her, even if it only would have gotten me some cheap thrills... Oh well, can't change that now.

That's good. You didn't use her. That really shows respect, self-control and maturity.

No never, at least not yet...

Yeah... Sure ruined my high school rep though. I'm basically the only guy who hasn't gotten laid at my school, so I get a lot of crap for that. I'm waiting for college where I'm hoping I can find a girl who isn't a whore. ^_^

LOL. High school sucked for me. Truth be told, I wish I would have waited until I got married to have sex. That's another thread - and yeah, you can pick up a lot of baggage with a whore. Good move, IMHO.

well, that's an interesting concept. i can't say i have, but it would be interesting to see how i would react to someone after dreaming about them.
im sure most guys just try to ignore it, while girls may be more open and willing to explore the possibility. This may explain why i have girls to whom I've never spoken a word to come up and talk to me. :S

@ Asumal - sometimes I wonder if I am motivated by the dream to be more outgoing and more likely to get to know the person vs. had I not dreamed about the woman. I have had dreams about women and I approach them and they were cold, but then they ended up becoming good friends.

I do wonder if the subconscious knows things that we don't. Like 'I am not attracted to this certain type of person, but consciously don't know why I like a person,' you know?