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MontanaHatchet said:
trashleg said:
MontanaHatchet said:
trashleg said:
MontanaHatchet said:

Girls obviously find some of the things mentioned so far important. Looks, money, penis size, etc. The main things girls want to know is if the guy is well connected. Does he have lots of friends? Is he social? Does he know interesting people? Does he participate in any group activities? Obviously these things become less important with age. But girls, in the end, just want to see if the guy is...cool.

 

cool? maybe in high school... money has nothing to do with it either. personally, all i want is to know that i make someone happy :)  ...but, that's just me.

Well my apologies then. I'm speaking from experience, since I found my current relationship in highschool and I'm currently in college. I think most women at least want to know that their man is well connected.

 

im currenytly still with my 1st boyfriend - who i started going out with 4 and a half years ago in school too, and im at uni now - i didnt care about how many friends he had. i appreciate that your partner might have cared about certain things, but as a girl, who talks to other girls about these things, i think im slightly better qualified :P true, the girls you hear about care for superficial things - connections, material possessions, money etc. but i know many more who would rather make their own of all those things. and just remember guys, sex ain't everything ;)

Yes, I get it. Caring about connections or money isn't superficial and there's certainly nothing wrong with it. I was just listing examples of things that are part of what girls want and not the deciders of what men they like. Don't insult me or my girlfriend. Unless you're dating a nice guy who's also ugly, has no friends, and isn't interesting whatsoever, then you're probably superficial as well (at least from your view).

 

dude, take it easy. i wasnt insulting you or your gf, just saying that not every girl is like that. and yes, i do believe it is usperficial to want someone purely for what benefit they can bring to you, so you dont have to go work for what you want yourself. basically, girls who want an easy life make me angry.  but my apologies if i upset you? i was just saying, you dont need those things to be attractive.

 



Highwaystar101 said: trashleg said that if I didn't pay back the money she leant me, she would come round and break my legs... That's why people call her trashleg, because she trashes the legs of the people she loan sharks money to.
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Galaki said:
trashleg said:

sex ain't everything ;)

 

She's a witch! BURN HER!!

 

...i didn't say it was nothing, either... lol.



Highwaystar101 said: trashleg said that if I didn't pay back the money she leant me, she would come round and break my legs... That's why people call her trashleg, because she trashes the legs of the people she loan sharks money to.

so what is it then? lol



Snake? Snake? Snaaaaaaaake!!!!

lol its not a binary thing, it doesnt have to be either everything or nothing. sex is just one part of a bigger picture.. god, you guys are really desperate for answers, huh? :P



Highwaystar101 said: trashleg said that if I didn't pay back the money she leant me, she would come round and break my legs... That's why people call her trashleg, because she trashes the legs of the people she loan sharks money to.
trashleg said:
lol its not a binary thing, it doesnt have to be either everything or nothing. sex is just one part of a bigger picture.. god, you guys are really desperate for answers, huh? :P

I'd rather say that a lot of people here are desperate for attention from a cute smile ;).

I'm starting to figure women out though... for instance if your comming to a birthday and you ask if they want a present they will probably say no, it's ok if you come without... Then ALWAYS bring a present.

If nothing is wrong, something is wrong. Go sit next to her, don't speak... let her speak. Then when she does, do not find answers but bitch and complain alongside her.

There are a few things I haven't figured out though - when you ask what she wants to do and she let's you decide, what is the best option? My picks generally tend to be not so good (my bedroom? Or "Death and Gore part 5" in the cinema?) 



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you could say that. i have a vast array of experience concerning being single. zilch on relationships. for the record, i actually plan on staying a virgin, but i do like to have the take from the opposite end of the spectrum



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Esmoreit said:
trashleg said:
lol its not a binary thing, it doesnt have to be either everything or nothing. sex is just one part of a bigger picture.. god, you guys are really desperate for answers, huh? :P

I'd rather say that a lot of people here are desperate for attention from a cute smile ;).

I'm starting to figure women out though... for instance if your comming to a birthday and you ask if they want a present they will probably say no, it's ok if you come without... Then ALWAYS bring a present.

If nothing is wrong, something is wrong. Go sit next to her, don't speak... let her speak. Then when she does, do not find answers but bitch and complain alongside her.

There are a few things I haven't figured out though - when you ask what she wants to do and she let's you decide, what is the best option? My picks generally tend to be not so good (my bedroom? Or "Death and Gore part 5" in the cinema?) 

 

haha, you have us all figured out don't you? ...I don't like being asked what I want to do, cos I'm crap at deciding too.. when I say "I don't mind where we go" what I LITERALLY mean is "I'll go anywhere as long as I can be with you *cute smile*" :P  oh, and death and gore 5 sounds awesome, haha :D



Highwaystar101 said: trashleg said that if I didn't pay back the money she leant me, she would come round and break my legs... That's why people call her trashleg, because she trashes the legs of the people she loan sharks money to.

^^

Haha and when I bravely told mij teacher and the other students that I took my date to "300" (while she wanted to see some romcom) I was actually berated for that :D! Give me a note when your in Amsterdam... I'll have a friend shoot "Death and Gore 5" all indie style for us to enjoy ;).

And no, I have not figured girls/women out yet. Far from it, but I'm starting to connect the pieces. I still don't see why girls sometimes have the unexplained need to cause a fight.
Or why the need for 18 frigging pairs of shoes.

One girl had over a 100 handbags... I asked if she was just a collector. Apparantly, she needed all of it....

Gah!!



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Girls are easy to figure out.
Yes means No.
No means No.
Maybe means No.



Sex, money and power? Isn't that what men want?

O_o I want someone loyal, trustworthy and affectionate who shares most of my beliefs and ideals.

A job and a car and a place to live are all pluses, lol. But money is something most women probably aim for when love fails them.