What do girls want in a men

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MontanaHatchet said:

trashleg said:

MontanaHatchet said:

trashleg said:

MontanaHatchet said:

Girls obviously find some of the things mentioned so far important. Looks, money, penis size, etc. The main things girls want to know is if the guy is well connected. Does he have lots of friends? Is he social? Does he know interesting people? Does he participate in any group activities? Obviously these things become less important with age. But girls, in the end, just want to see if the guy is...cool.

 

cool? maybe in high school... money has nothing to do with it either. personally, all i want is to know that i make someone happy :)  ...but, that's just me.

Well my apologies then. I'm speaking from experience, since I found my current relationship in highschool and I'm currently in college. I think most women at least want to know that their man is well connected.

 

im currenytly still with my 1st boyfriend - who i started going out with 4 and a half years ago in school too, and im at uni now - i didnt care about how many friends he had. i appreciate that your partner might have cared about certain things, but as a girl, who talks to other girls about these things, i think im slightly better qualified :P true, the girls you hear about care for superficial things - connections, material possessions, money etc. but i know many more who would rather make their own of all those things. and just remember guys, sex ain't everything ;)

Yes, I get it. Caring about connections or money isn't superficial and there's certainly nothing wrong with it. I was just listing examples of things that are part of what girls want and not the deciders of what men they like. Don't insult me or my girlfriend. Unless you're dating a nice guy who's also ugly, has no friends, and isn't interesting whatsoever, then you're probably superficial as well (at least from your view).

 

dude, take it easy. i wasnt insulting you or your gf, just saying that not every girl is like that. and yes, i do believe it is usperficial to want someone purely for what benefit they can bring to you, so you dont have to go work for what you want yourself. basically, girls who want an easy life make me angry.  but my apologies if i upset you? i was just saying, you dont need those things to be attractive.