Yes, I get it. Caring about connections or money isn't superficial and there's certainly nothing wrong with it. I was just listing examples of things that are part of what girls want and not the deciders of what men they like. Don't insult me or my girlfriend. Unless you're dating a nice guy who's also ugly, has no friends, and isn't interesting whatsoever, then you're probably superficial as well (at least from your view).

In past experiences I've noticed that good listening skills are almost equivalent to a natural aphrodisiac.....


Of course to be a good listener you have to be the caring, nice, etc. etc. etc. type and especially patient but still. LISTENING!

I heard you, I just don't remember what you just said.

Well that's the thing, you have to be responsive while listening.

This is quite simple really.

Girls want one man to fulfill their every need, while a man wants every girl to fulfill his one need.

+1

So complicated yet so simple.

Lol true some women do have some unrealistic wants for men. Sometimes I'll hear women complain about a man, and its like, well they're allowed to be human and make mistakes. Women make many mistakes, and I hate hearing about the double-standard. Oh a man can look at a girl, but a girl cant look at a man. A woman is allowed to be bitchy but a man has to be nice constantly. It's stupid. I just think people over think what they want in a man. They build-up this guy into some kind of White Knight in the Urban City. As if he's going to come and rescue her from this "hellish life".

Personally, I just want someone who I can trust, who will act like a gentleman, but not be afraid to act like himself. Like be a guy, and do what you like. Also, respect me, and I will show respect in return -but I wont spit in your face just because you spit in mine. Doesnt mean I wont forget it. Do little things to show that you care about me, like litle texts saying you missed me, or that you were just thinking about me-yes I know its cheesey but its still cute. Open doors, and all that jazz.

Women should also do the same. By sometimes paying, sending texts about how they missed their man, and respect him. Both men and women should respect each other and should do little things for each other to show they care. It shouldnt be all on the guy to have to constantly show that he cares for his woman.

This is enough proof for me:

^^^^^

Also, some women do want unrealistic things and have double standards.  They aren't worth it.  Find the good ones.

i have no idea, as ive never gone out with a girl, one of my friends who is a girl has very strange taste in guys though, she went out with a guy who would brag to people when she wasnt around that he was cheating on her, i mean wtf? i sincerly hope most girls have better taste than that.