Screw you its cold in here, and and ...... shut up *runs away and cries*

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Oh. It's cold. Sorry. My drawing is incorrect. Here you go.

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 Supposing what you keep alluding to and implying are real (and I only question it because you have stated very little) you really should go see some form of proffesional help. It is not only very successful in treating one of the problems you have described, it is also very useful in trying to move past a seeming distrust (at least at times) of an entire gender.

I could actually address a great deal of what you put forth originally and provide interesting random statistics that I have picked up but long forgotten the source. But I do not feel like engaging someone in a conversation when all they want to do is blindly attack people rather than attempt to discuss an issue in a rational manner. If you want to have a real discussion with people I suggest you stop trolling and actually try for a seriousthread and then I will give a serious reply (save for actually trying to help someone which I do regardless).

heh professional help. not all of us have the money to throw around like that. I couldn't even afford to see a doctor when I got pneumonia a few years ago. I had to put it on a credit card.

Doesn't matter. From what I remember they just try forcing meds down your throat.

They do have free hotlines for this sort of thing too.  No meds, no cash.  Just talking to let you sort out your feelings.

Some girls have this rape fantasy. I did it for fun once when a female friend of mine confessed it. Then it was easy to execute. just know her schedule (in her case, going home from sports at quite late in the evening), yank her from her bike - whisper a word we both know so she knows it's all play and then go from there. I think that's what chapset means.

But the line between what is rape and what is not is quite a blur. I mean, I forced my will once, sort of. A girl who had a boyfriend asked me to come over as I still had to pick up her paintball fare she borrowed. I used to be her lover on the side but she wanted to remain faithfull from now on. Fine of course but at some point I just kissed her and didn't get any reaction. It went on from there. She said she was ashamed and wished she didn't do it but I didn't hear her say no. Was it rape then or not?

In conclusion... rape is bad unless a hot girl decides to rape me so I can give an awesome excuse to my girl.