I think the ps3 environment is more friendly to girls. 2 are among my list of friends. I don't think the online has as many annoying 13 year olds as xbox live. In my experience girls seem to like fighting games, RPGs (JRPGs especially), platformers and other random titles.
I would suggest she gets the ps3 because she would also most likely buy a HDTV in the near future and blu-ray just becomes a bonus! I hope her ps3 (hopefully) doesn't end up like mine though lol.
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