I know the "bros before... girls" thing, but it's not like i'm cheating on him or anything. Still, i'm not and i've never been in his position now so i don't know how he feels, and neither how the girl feels. Funny thing, before staying with the girl, i asked him what he'd think of me and her together, and he said he didn't liked her anymore and it was up to me.

And yes, i've took the care to make sure it's love. Damn, she talks about me all the time with her friends ( yes, i did some research lol) and keeps pictures of me lol. Also, the body language just keep getting more positive each day. And i'm sure it's love in my side too.

So, should i just keep waiting for her to give me the "yes, i wanna be your girlfriend" or do something?

@Rol, have you ever left Austria to see the real world?

Do something, If you feel it deep in your heart. There is nothing to lose here if you friend is ok with it.  Go for it, remember you have back up.

and you went back?

 cheap hookers?

No, look, the biggest problem is her...

I asked him before and he said it was ok, still, he is preety pissed at us both now. Well, then he should have said something, what is done is done and he ain't getting in my way now. Also, he lied a lot to me, and our friendship was already getting weaker.

It's her that don't wanna accept the serious relationship, but she don't wanna let go what we are having now. She says she needs more time because she just left a relationship but come on... It's definitely him, playing some mind games with her. She is afraid of destroying my friendship with him and afraid of being called a wh*** or something.

You know, things are not so bad in this casual relationship, but i don't wanna lose her and it would be easier to keep the interest level high if we were really together. I'm new to this almost-boyfriend game lol. Also, would be much better if i could spend the day with her.

I feel like i should man up and give her an ultimatum or something, or get face to face with my friend and tell him to stop being so childish. But i don't know if i should do something like this or just wait for her to get over it and stay with me.

I don't think that matters to him. Rol is a virgin.

I don't have a problem, I'm completely happy with life.

Normally it's the girl that wants to be more than "friends w/ benefits", but it's so weird to see the guy be that way.

I say give her an ultimatium.  If she wants you she gets all of you or none of you.

But I'm a virgin, so what do I know?

Any serious relationship with her will seriouly kill your friendship anway. IT would be to weird for both of them to be around anyway. Now, i am questioning her intentions, You have to be clear that it needs to more than just fooling around. And, from m experiences, she still loves him.