Confidence doesn't make you attractive, being attractive makes you confident. It has hard to be a confident man when you have experienced failure and rejection from people because you are an unattractive man. Being rejected all the time is a indicator that you are an unattractive man and there is no point in trying. Failure does not build confidence. No game or confidence will ever turn things around and make you attractive.

Choosing signals must be there for a woman to choose a guy based on his looks. So many guys are never going to be chosen by the female because the dating game heavily favours the best looking guys. There is no confidence, no game needed at all. Good looking unemployed dead beat losers and criminals with no career and they still attract women because they have good looks. It is all about the looks and if anyone tries and says it is not they are lying.

I hate the loser guys that defend every woman I try to talk to and they insult me, abuse me and try to provoke me. So many guys are smug jerks looking to start on me, they slander me and provoke me. Most of the guys are insecure losers and they try to gain power by beating guys like me down. Bullies are cowards and they hate it when people stand up to them and take them on. The best move is to ignore them and walk away because they are not worth it.

I know plenty of guys have the attitude of the loser guys that would try and insult me and make stuff up about me for no reason and gang up on me. I hate that nonsense and it has no place in a civilised world. Men are violent by nature and they are competing for the right to get women. All of that is nonsense because it is the woman that selects the guy regardless of his personality or confidence.

Guys spend hours in a bar talking to women about career and hobbies and there is no real attraction and no connection. Handsome guy walks in and gets 3 numbers within 20 mins and all the women were flirting and interested in his hot looks. This scenario happened to me and has probably happened to many guys. Personality, confidence, charm, social skills and all that other nonsense does not matter. It is all about the looks.

Please save this for your incel forums. This is about genders, not people blaming everyone but themselves for their misery.

Completely relevant to Gender it is describing my experience as a failed male and males face harsh treatment within society. Feminist society ensures women get lighter sentences if the commit the exact crime committed by a man. There is a clear gender imbalance within society and my post is completely relevant.

Males have to go through so many hoops to attract  women providing they are good enough looking and they have to deal with a  hostile world that makes their lives difficult.

Males have to stand up and fight for their position within society and overcome obstacles and stop caring what others think. External threats like negative people need to be avoided and are not worth engaging.

Completely relevant to Gender it is describing my experience as a failed male and males face harsh treatment within society. Feminist society ensures women get lighter sentences if the commit the exact crime committed by a man. There is a clear gender imbalance within society and my post is completely relevant.

Males have to go through so many hoops to attract  women providing they are good enough looking and they have to deal with a  hostile world that makes their lives difficult.

You are looking to provoke a reaction through name calling. You revert to name calling proves you are wrong! You have no power on this site and can not tell anyone what to do!

Males have to stand up and fight for their position within society and overcome obstacles and stop caring what others think. External threats like negative people need to be avoided and are not worth engaging.

A real man must be an aggressive, assertive, masculine strong man.

A man is judged harshly for making mistakes.

He should never complain about life being unfair because he will be labelled weak by society

He has a deep voice that sounds authoritative and intimidating.

A man can not express his feelings or be labelled weak by society.

A man's role in society is set as the strong knuckle dragger that fights to protect his home, family and his possessions.

Women's role in society is not clear cut, they are not judged as harshly if they make mistakes.

Women do not has much pressure place on them to succeed in life.

Women are passive and they have all the power in dating and relationships.

The standards for a real man are set high by society. Hollywood film/TV shows what is expected of a real man. A man must prove he is worthy to be labelled a real man by society.

A real man must be an aggressive, assertive, masculine strong man.

A man is judged harshly for making mistakes.

He should never complain about life being unfair because he will be labelled weak by society

He has a deep voice that sounds authoritative and intimidating.

A man can not express his feelings or be labelled weak by society.

A man's role in society is set as the strong knuckle dragger that fights to protect his home, family and his possessions.

Women's role in society is not clear cut, they are not judged as harshly if they make mistakes.

Women do not has much pressure place on them to succeed in life.

Women are passive and they have all the power in dating and relationships.

The standards for a real man are set high by society. Hollywood film/TV shows what is expected of a real man. A man must prove he is worthy to be labelled a real man by society.