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Married. 213 20.44%
 
Engaged. 50 4.80%
 
Dating (long term) 121 11.61%
 
Dating (Short term) 40 3.84%
 
In a polygamous, polyamar... 22 2.11%
 
Single. 543 52.11%
 
Other....in comments. 53 5.09%
 
Total:1,042
Shiken on 06 July 2017

I am going through a mutual divorce, but living with my new girlfriend, which is of course very serious.

So I guess I qualify as "other" lol.



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NATO on 06 July 2017

Married



Volterra_90 on 07 July 2017
LadyJasmine said:
Single, everyone asks why I dnt have a BF.

My question is why limit your self at a young age

Same here. I'm 26, why would I limit myself with a GF/BF? 



VGPolyglot on 07 July 2017

I've been single my entire life, and from the looks of it it'll stay that way for a while



Volterra_90 on 07 July 2017
VGPolyglot said:
I've been single my entire life, and from the looks of it it'll stay that way for a while

Well, when I was actively looking for a girlfriend/boyfriend and I was interested in some people, I failed misserably. Funnily enough, once I went "I don't give two shits about anyone"... I had some relationship offers. It seems like I'm never in the right mood to what the world is planning to me XD.



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VGPolyglot on 07 July 2017
trasharmdsister12 said:
Huh, it's been over a year since I posted. Guess what? Still single. I've given up over the last year though. Deleted all my dating profiles, given up on trying to be social, and just try to fill my time with video games and other hobbies now. I'm not any happier about things but at least it doesn't feel like I'm pissing energy and time away on something that's not gonna happen.

Given up on trying to be social? So you don't talk to any friends either? Is the mod chat your source of social interaction? Because I guess that's what Discord has kind of become to me.



VGPolyglot on 07 July 2017
trasharmdsister12 said:
VGPolyglot said:

Given up on trying to be social? So you don't talk to any friends either? Is the mod chat your source of social interaction? Because I guess that's what Discord has kind of become to me.

I have a great deal of social anxiety and depression and I spent a couple of years changing so much about myself to feel more confident and build self-esteem. But it wasn't working so I've given up. I talk to people at work (which is where most of my time goes) and whenever people reach out I talk to them but it's not all that often. I suppose I spend some time in mod chat as social interaction, though I'm nowhere near as active as you are on Discord. 

I guess I've driven my friends away too. Hopefully everything works out for you, if you want to talk I'm always up for it



curl-6 on 07 July 2017

Still single, probably will be for the rest of my life to be honest. Simple truth is I'm just not want women look for in a man. In the game of attraction there are winners and losers, and I ended up in the latter category. Oh well, there's still plenty to enjoy in life; games, movies, friends, travel, a rewarding career, etc.



FentonCrackshell on 07 July 2017

Married, 2 children, she cheated (repeatedly), separated on the way to divorce. Will never marry again!



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Volterra_90 on 07 July 2017
VGPolyglot said:
trasharmdsister12 said:

I have a great deal of social anxiety and depression and I spent a couple of years changing so much about myself to feel more confident and build self-esteem. But it wasn't working so I've given up. I talk to people at work (which is where most of my time goes) and whenever people reach out I talk to them but it's not all that often. I suppose I spend some time in mod chat as social interaction, though I'm nowhere near as active as you are on Discord. 

I guess I've driven my friends away too. Hopefully everything works out for you, if you want to talk I'm always up for it

I must be the only gamer without Discord, how does it even work? XD.

By the way, and that's not an intention in changing your behaviour, obviously. But I suffered about... 6 years ago from what they called... Some kind of "social anxiety"? Well, I was afraid to go to college, because I didn't get along with my mates. It was painful. And I had some anxiety attacks and a pretty strong depression. What worked for me was, only, some understanding people who was gentle with me, and understand that I was going through some dark times. They became friends of mine and everything suddenly dissapeared, so I can say that now I'm happy. I still hate the world from time to time, but who doesn't? But obviously what worked for me doesn't work for everybody else, that's for sure. And sometimes it's hard to meet that kind of people, I guess I was just lucky enough. 

I must say that gaming also helped me a lot through my life. It's a pretty healthy hobby as far as I'm concerned.