do khan and dsister live close?

Arrange a trade to solve opposing problems? .

Seriously, though, it's not like i have the time to really play the dating game. I've pursued Shiva because she's here at my school, low energy investment in finding her and in keeping in touch (compared to, say, me finding a girl at a local 'con or something, who i might not have any chance of interacting with daily). If this is over (which i'm beginning to suspect, though i've been surprised before), then i'll just let it lie either until i run into someone new and intriguing at Pitt, or get out of school and have the time to invest in the Game to play it properly.

Go out in buuurrnning flames and ask her for a real date.. there is really nothing to lose.. nothing..

agreed altho i dont usually take 4 months to get burned

I've got to see where i stand first. I'm assuming this is the end, but i've been wrong about that before (though i've already moved into the "acceptance" phase. I'm not really holding out hope, but you can't know how to approach it until you know where you stand).

I may indeed come out with it, i might not. Have to get a read on the situation first.

Lessons learned, of course, namely that this whole process isn't as terrifying as i thought it was.

Would it even count as a burn? After all this time and energy put into its more like luke warm coffee spilled over your jeans...

Turns out I'm an idiot with dates. So yeah. Just a boring dinner with my family. I did give my new sister in law a black eye though. That was fun.

If in doubt, flop it out.

Probs don't actually do that - arrests and immorality  and all.

If it's flopping out, then you're talking to a girl you weren't attracted to in the first place

But seriously, i got this.

Damn you that was like my first post in the thread!!

" how many times do i have to say: you are asking her to go for a drink and not to marry her... Why do people go all giddy giddy thinking about waaay too many consquences when you just should enjoy some time with the other person..."

the time we could have saved... anyway the lesson for all the other people here in the thread: do be faster then Mr Kahn, not for yourself but for us..