I can agree with your sentiment to a certain extent. I'll NEVER pay to play online, Fuck that shit! I get free online on my PC, so why the hell should/would I pay for it on a console? If Nintendo starts with that shit next gen I'm not gonna play Mario Kart online. As easy as that.
That's one of the reasons why I don't get a PS or Xbox until very late in the gen, when I know what console exclusives I really want to play. Most 3rd party games can be found on PC anyways.
I love Nintendo's way of doing DLC, and New Super Luigi might be the first ever DLC I'll ever get (once I got me a Wii U that is), but equally, I looove how Ubisoft handled Far Cry 3's Dlc; Blood Dragon! THAT'S how you do DLC!
I never buy a game that's not "complete" without DLC; I don't like getting ass fucked.
PC+Nintendo is the best way to go imo, and get a PS/Xbox late in the gen.