In your list, I can tell you the games you shouldn't get. Pokemon X/Y, Mario Party, and Paper Mario Sticker Star.

I'm not a fan of Animal Crossing but there are a lot of people who like it, putting hundreds of hours into it, so maybe it might be your kind of thing. Basically it's one of those types of games where you repeatedly do the same stuff. Shake trees, catch bugs, go fishing, find new clothes and furniture, do fetch quests for your neighbors by delivering stuff to each of them getting different stuff for doing so, repeat. You might like it, you might not, but if games where you're repeating the same stuff and not really getting much out of it other than a larger wardrobe or more furniture aren't your thing, I'd say avoid it. Or if you've ever played Minecraft and like it, then you might like Animal Crossing, don't like Minecraft, then you won't like Animal Crossing. Completely different games, but they're similar in how progression goes.

Don't they have weekly Endless Skyscraper attempts for Luigi's Mansion 2 here on VGChartz?

Luigi's Mansion 2 is better in every way to Luigi's Mansion 1. You can't go wrong if you pick it up.

Definitely get Fire Emblem Awakening. Extremely good SRPG that appeals to a lot of people. Even my brothers liked it and they are not really into RPGs.
Paper Mario Sticker Star isn't bad persay but it's plot is barebones and most battles have no point
New Super Mario Bros. 2 is a good game but if you don't love platformers then the other platformers are more interesting
Mario Party is only good with friends and even then its iffy. Luigi Mansion 2 and Mario Kart 7 are better options to play with friends
Also consider: Etrian Odyssey 4, Shin Megami Tensei 4, Phoenix Wright: Dual Destinies, and Ghost recon: Shadow Wars

Never played a phoenix wright game, what are they like

Why dont you like Pokemon, i only ever played the original like a 100 years ago. 

Alot of shouts for OOT but i did play it on both N64 and Gamecube, is it really worth getting again?

Voted Fire Emblem like a lot of other people, would also suggest Animal Crossing, Pokemon X or Y, and Bravely Default relatively soon as they are games with playing potential of over a hundred hours if you really get into them, so I'd suggest getting them early and once you get bored you can start picking up other games while slowly still working on the respective's games extra stuff (e.g. getting more items in AC, training Pokemon/breeding/whatever in Pokemon, grinding/whatever in Bravely Default which isn't even out in N.A. yet)

Courtroom drama/adventure games. Basically, they feature a series of murder cases, and you alternate between two very different styles of gameplay to defend your client and discover the true culprit. There's the adventure section where you talk to people to get information and search crime scenes to get evidence, and then there's the courtroom section where you have to find contradictions in testimonies use evidence to defend/pressure people in the courtroom. The characters are great and there's other nice touches in this version such as Athena's Mood Matrix sections (as well as returns of previous features such as Phoenix's psyche-locks and Apollo's perception sections).