Ive never owned a headset before and Ive heard my mates say that certain headsets only work on certain consoles. So my question is kinda simple, will this work on WiiU, 360, XBO, PS4 etc.  

http://us.playstation.com/ps3/accessories/gta-v-pulse-elite-headset.html

I think they said that they were gonna enable the pulse-set on at least ps4 in the near future... lemme research it and I'll be back..

From http://www.playstationlifestyle.net/2014/01/03/shuhei-yoshida-briefly-talks-about-ps4-pulse-headset-update-hdcp-ps4-stock-redblue-dualshock-4s-driveclub-release-date/

“Pulse support will come with the future firmware updates.”

So doesnt look like it works with the ps4 atm, but will do so in the future :) I dont know about the other consoles though :/

Why not just get a Turtle Beach that will work across PS platforms and Xbox? I know mine work on PS4, PS3, Xbox One, and 360.

can you reccomend one?? do they have any that are both wired and wireless like the Sony Pulse Elite?

The Only pair I can recommend (which are the pair I own) is the XP400 . Although I'm not sure what you want in terms of sound quality IE Stero, Dolby Digital 5.1/7.1 etc...

I don't think that one will work on Xbox One. Wii U, PC, Vita, PS3 and PS4. Though you have full customization settings and special game features on PS3 and soon on PS4 as well. PS4 will be connected trough the 3.5mm jack. Wouldn't it be cheaper to get the regular pulse though? Turtle Beach will also be very good but those are a bit more expensive I think.