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Orth: Twitter Debacle “Turned Out To Be The Best Thing That Ever Happened To Me"

Posted on Thursday, November 7 @ 05:54:10 Eastern by Alex_Osborn
 



Remember Adam Orth? You know, the former Microsoft employee who caused quite a stir on Twitter with his comments regarding Xbox One's alleged DRM? Remember #DealWithIt? Yeah, he's that guy.

During a talk at GDC Next, Orth spoke about the entire debacle, saying that the experience was particularly difficult, as "reliving it again wasn't something I wanted to put myself through." Despite this, he decided to address the situation at this event. "My colleagues, friends and family urged me to do it, though, hoping that I could find closure and maybe I could get even a single person to see what someone endures when they becomes the target of internet hate... and that person may choose empathy over negativity next time."

Four days after the big Twitter fiasco, Orth resigned from Microsoft and has since moved to Southern California to pursue work at a different company. He confessed that he made a poor decision to take such a discussion to Twitter and has learned a lot from the experience.

I exercised incredibly poor judgment expressing my personal opinion in a public forum about a volatile and divisive topic in the gaming community. I made it even worse by continuing that conversation sarcastically with a close friend. While the tone was natural and normal for us, the rest of the world heard and read something very different. It's easy now for me to see the anger, outrage and how controversial it was based on my professional position and the tone in which I delivered my opinion.

While I stand behind that opinion as well as the right to have and express it, how I said it and how I conducted myself was wrong. This was a conversation I should have had with my colleagues over a beer rather than on Twitter.

In the end, Orth is able to look back on the whole mess and see some good that has come out of it. In fact, he said it "turned out to be the best thing that ever happened to me." He then went on to explain the recovery process in more detail, saying:

I survived. When something this bad happens to you, you have two choices: Curl up in the fetal position and become the victim, or face the truth, learn from your mistakes with humility and move forward.

When everything burned to the ground, it became a forcing function for radical personal reset. I saw this as opportunity. I grew closer to my friends and family. I matured as a person. I became a better parent. I got healthy and lost 50 pounds... I made sweeping positive life changes for my career and my family. It was a serious, painful and challenging test. There were times when I wanted to strike out at these animals and humiliate them, hurt them back twice as hard — especially when [harassment] was directed at my child. But I resisted.

This event changed me positively and profoundly forever. With the help of friends, family and deep personal reflection, I came out the other side stronger.

Well, it's good to see some positive came out of this terrible mess in the end.



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I guess he was forced to #DealWithIt!



Good for him, it's kinda sad that he had to lose his job to get his life together, but he turned it around in the end.
Going back to gaming though, Msoft's pr hasn't gotten much better since he left tho...



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Has he managed to find another job yet?



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The way he acted in an open setting showed extremely poor judgment. I don't think that can be argued. He made a mistake. However, the sad thing is that whenever something like this happens, the way some people react is much, much worse.

Several months ago, a woman lost her job because she made the bad decision of posing in front of a memorial while making rude gestures, then the infinitely worse decision to post that picture online. Many people were outraged. Those comments about the woman, though, were horrible. In my opinion, they went way, way beyond what she did. They were much more offensive but the thing is, we overlook them because they were anonymous.

The same with the football player who recent left his team for being bullied. Simply put, some of the comments about him are sickening.

Sadly, there probably isn't a real solution out there, except that people need to be careful. There are a lot of garbage people out there who throw away their respect for others when they're sitting behind a monitor.



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BasilZero said:
#DealWithIt

One of the best moments in the gaming industry. :D


You have a pretty crappy best moments list then.



BasilZero said:
sethnintendo said:
BasilZero said:
#DealWithIt

One of the best moments in the gaming industry. :D


You have a pretty crappy best moments list then.


So you dont find any humor in what happened? Man you must be really boring then.

Nah, I just saw a backlash that was rightfully so.  I would put him on my video game industry shit list. 



BasilZero said:
sethnintendo said:

Nah, I just saw a backlash that was rightfully so.  I would put him on my video game industry shit list.


Well what I meant by best was humor wise but ya I agree with ya on that.


Ah, I just woke up so my mind isn't 100% yet.  I will congrats the guy on losing 50 lbs though.  Seems like he has straightened up his life decently after leaving Microsoft.



Storm in a teacup, disgusting mob mentality on gaf blowing it out of proportion and because 'they can' for their e peens. Truly was a pathetic sight to behold.



 

avais1993 said:
Has he managed to find another job yet?

yes.