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Ok, ill try to keep this short but theres this girl... Shes.. Shes amazing, like truely amazing. beautiful, Smart and a great personality But... a somewhat low esteem and well she says she feels like she 'doesnt deserve this'... At first i completely didn't understand what she meant by this.

A friend believe she is referring my compassion, i do care about her alot and i show sometimes.

We dated before but she broke up with me for that reason a few months ago.were friends now and our relationship (friendship) is great! i love talking to her and she has admitted that she feels the say way.

Shes not really open about things but she says im really easy to talk to, I feel that she REALLY does like me but something is holding her back. I once ALMOST got her to explain but she didn't want to finish :[

Ugh i could go into more detail but my main point is.. if you guys have any advice for me on how i could win her over to the point were she would date me?

Should i just stay friends and see where it goes from there? or just move on...




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around 60% of the guys on here would rather see their console sell more than have sex. VGC isnt the best place to ask about relationship advice

Edit #1: btw are you really 15 as your profile suggests?



Are you happy just being friends? If not then just talk to her. If she says no then at least you will know. If you live life without taking chances you never truly lived. And if you dont seek the answers that you want to know you will drown in your own emotions. Just let it go and let the chips fall where they may.




       

You are friendzoned dude, take a L and move on.



I you are not happy being friend then you need to stay away from her life... if she likes you then she will come looking for you then you will decide what to do.

The worst thing possible is to try be a friend of somebody that you have some feelings over the friendship.

So try to move one and see what will happen...

PS. Take that like my personal opinion... you have to know better what to do in relation at your case



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idk dude.
But from what I've read it looks like you should look out for the friendzone



You're satisfying her sexually.



i don't want to sound bad but i think this is the typical friend zone case. she really likes you but only as friend. if you really like her you should try your luck or let it go. otherwise you will be her "best friend" for years and will always have the desire for more.



crissindahouse said:
i don't want to sound bad but i think this is the typical friend zone case. she really likes you but only as friend. if you really like her you should try your luck or let it go. otherwise you will be her "best friend" for years and will always have the desire for more.


the guy is 15 years old. she is likely the same age. all he needs to do is make her jealous, thats it, make her jealous and keep doing so for a while, she will come for him. i cant believe anyone hasnt even told him this. friendzone is just a myth



bananaking21 said:
crissindahouse said:
i don't want to sound bad but i think this is the typical friend zone case. she really likes you but only as friend. if you really like her you should try your luck or let it go. otherwise you will be her "best friend" for years and will always have the desire for more.


the guy is 15 years old. she is likely the same age. all he needs to do is make her jealous, thats it, make her jealous and keep doing so for a while, she will come for him. i cant believe anyone hasnt even told him this. friendzone is just a myth

everyone says friendzone, i really thought it's friend zone