Alright so a couple months ago I went to church and a girl came up to me to introduce herself. She was smoking hot and I knew she attended my church, she also volunteered with one of the organisations I do. But for some reason before she said a word I was over whelmed with a feeling that I did not like this girl.

She never did anything wrong. She didn't even say a word to me. Infact I didn't even know her but the first time she came to talk to me I just thought I do not like this girl. Its scary because we both came from the same church, after talking to her realized we had the same ideologies. Volunteered at the same organisation. She was smoking hot. Yet for some reason I just got this overwhelming vibe I would not get along with this girl.

She asked to go for coffee. Later on we had a couple times we talked and I was put in charge of an operation for the organisation we both volunteered with. She was put under me. Quickly I found out that as much as I like to lead and am an assertive person, she was as well.

Infact the whole time she tried to supercede me and constantly questioned everything I did. Never listened to anything I said and we ended up at each others throats.

So whats weird is I knew we wouldn't get along before she said a word. Turned out that intuition was right but it scares me. How could I tell that I wasn't going to get along with this girl without getting to know her? I went for coffee with her and tried to be her friend but why did I feel the whole time that I wasn't going to get along with her? Then whats even scarier is that we were both very leader oriented, she went on to lead an event and did a great job. But when you put us both together we constantly fought she always wanted to lead and so did I.

I wonder everyone talks about love at first site, but what about dislike at first site?

Have you ever seen someone and without talking to them or much knowledge about them at all just got this bad vibe that you wouldn't get along with them?

I'm not sure its that common to get this bad vibe as I did. I talked to some friends and they said they've never had anyone where they knew they wouldn't get along with before talking to them.

Yeah. Some people simply feel off when I first met them. Sometimes it can change if I get to know them better though.

Oh yeah, every night at work. I have a knack for picking out troublemakers and I'm usually either right or not that far off.