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At what age does it become weird to be a virgin?

Under 18 5 3.91%
 
18-21 14 10.94%
 
22-26 47 36.72%
 
27-31 24 18.75%
 
32-36 7 5.47%
 
Over 36 31 24.22%
 
Total:128
Joelcool7 said:

Honestly I don't think it's ever "Weird" to be a virgin. Its admirable in most cases.

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Kirameo said:

I'll be 18 in 2 weeks and I'm still a virgin. I don't particularly care. I'm not proud of it nor ashamed.

Being a virgin is just a circumstance of life, and there's no merit in being or not a virgin. It's like taking pride in doing something like parachuting because you finally did it or taking pride in not doing it because you can hold your desires. As stated above, I don't care. I know I'll eventually have sex so that doesn't bother me.

I agree with this post.



"I don't understand how someone could like Tolstoy and Dostoyevsky, but not like Twilight!!!"

"Last book I read was Brokeback Mountain, I just don't have the patience for them unless it's softcore porn."

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sapphi_snake said:
Kirameo said:

I'll be 18 in 2 weeks and I'm still a virgin. I don't particularly care. I'm not proud of it nor ashamed.

Being a virgin is just a circumstance of life, and there's no merit in being or not a virgin. It's like taking pride in doing something like parachuting because you finally did it or taking pride in not doing it because you can hold your desires. As stated above, I don't care. I know I'll eventually have sex so that doesn't bother me.

I agree with this post.


Well I'm damn proud of it! Damn proud! I kept it even though I was put under peer pressure and told it wasn't 'cool'.

So I'm proud! DAMN PROUD!!!

*FistPump*



Play4Fun said:
sapphi_snake said:
Kirameo said:

I'll be 18 in 2 weeks and I'm still a virgin. I don't particularly care. I'm not proud of it nor ashamed.

Being a virgin is just a circumstance of life, and there's no merit in being or not a virgin. It's like taking pride in doing something like parachuting because you finally did it or taking pride in not doing it because you can hold your desires. As stated above, I don't care. I know I'll eventually have sex so that doesn't bother me.

I agree with this post.


Well I'm damn proud of it! Damn proud! I kept it even though I was put under peer pressure and told it wasn't 'cool'.

So I'm proud! DAMN PROUD!!!

*FistPump*

LOL, settle down there virgin boy.



"I don't understand how someone could like Tolstoy and Dostoyevsky, but not like Twilight!!!"

"Last book I read was Brokeback Mountain, I just don't have the patience for them unless it's softcore porn."

                                                                               (The Voice of a Generation and Seece)

"If you cant stand the sound of your own voice than dont become a singer !!!!!"

                                                                               (pizzahut451)

sapphi_snake said:
flashpoint_1230 said:

Yes, but marriage isn't about completely ignoring the bad. Take the bad with the good, fine. But there's no possible way that you could ignore it. There's always that fear of "what if they're comparing me to past partners?" If either one of you has an experience where you can look back and know what sex is like, then wouldn't your mind automatically skip to that? You wouldn't be able to focus solely on the experience between you and your spouse. It's not fair to either of you.

 

lolita said:

 

These. I admire people who chose to wait instead of having meaningless sex.

I really want to facepalm at the guys who think they need to do it before 20 otherwise it's weird. Really? Dudes, that doesn't make you attractive... AT ALL. I'm a women and I know what I like and really dislike. If a guy slept around or had sex just cause he thinks it's cool, to me it is quite repulsive, doesn't show much intelligence (both mental and emotional), lack of maturity and it doesn't seem very respectful. Not sure I would want to be around that guy, ever.

 

Oh, thank goodness! Here I was thinking that I was weird!

That's the most ridiculous thing I've red today.


Don't you re-read your posts after you finish them?



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21, and meaningless sex isn't remotely bad. Yes there is a difference to that of making love, but good hot sex with a fit guy/girl is very FUN and worthwhile.



 

I'd probably raise an eyebrow if a 30 year old told me he/she was still a virgin. I don't know if I would think of it as weird though, unless it was a hot bombshell that told me she had tried to lose her virginity since 7th grade or something.



pizzahut451 said:
sapphi_snake said:
flashpoint_1230 said:

Yes, but marriage isn't about completely ignoring the bad. Take the bad with the good, fine. But there's no possible way that you could ignore it. There's always that fear of "what if they're comparing me to past partners?" If either one of you has an experience where you can look back and know what sex is like, then wouldn't your mind automatically skip to that? You wouldn't be able to focus solely on the experience between you and your spouse. It's not fair to either of you.

 

lolita said:

 

These. I admire people who chose to wait instead of having meaningless sex.

I really want to facepalm at the guys who think they need to do it before 20 otherwise it's weird. Really? Dudes, that doesn't make you attractive... AT ALL. I'm a women and I know what I like and really dislike. If a guy slept around or had sex just cause he thinks it's cool, to me it is quite repulsive, doesn't show much intelligence (both mental and emotional), lack of maturity and it doesn't seem very respectful. Not sure I would want to be around that guy, ever.

 

Oh, thank goodness! Here I was thinking that I was weird!

That's the most ridiculous thing I've red today.


Don't you re-read your posts after you finish them?

My typing mistake isn't as ridiculous as his irrational thinking.



"I don't understand how someone could like Tolstoy and Dostoyevsky, but not like Twilight!!!"

"Last book I read was Brokeback Mountain, I just don't have the patience for them unless it's softcore porn."

                                                                               (The Voice of a Generation and Seece)

"If you cant stand the sound of your own voice than dont become a singer !!!!!"

                                                                               (pizzahut451)

sapphi_snake said:
pizzahut451 said:
sapphi_snake said:
flashpoint_1230 said:

Yes, but marriage isn't about completely ignoring the bad. Take the bad with the good, fine. But there's no possible way that you could ignore it. There's always that fear of "what if they're comparing me to past partners?" If either one of you has an experience where you can look back and know what sex is like, then wouldn't your mind automatically skip to that? You wouldn't be able to focus solely on the experience between you and your spouse. It's not fair to either of you.

 

lolita said:

 

These. I admire people who chose to wait instead of having meaningless sex.

I really want to facepalm at the guys who think they need to do it before 20 otherwise it's weird. Really? Dudes, that doesn't make you attractive... AT ALL. I'm a women and I know what I like and really dislike. If a guy slept around or had sex just cause he thinks it's cool, to me it is quite repulsive, doesn't show much intelligence (both mental and emotional), lack of maturity and it doesn't seem very respectful. Not sure I would want to be around that guy, ever.

 

Oh, thank goodness! Here I was thinking that I was weird!

That's the most ridiculous thing I've red today.


Don't you re-read your posts after you finish them?

My typing mistake isn't as ridiculous as his irrational thinking.

Oh, shut up, already!

Agreeing to disagree works fine in this case.



Joelcool7 said:

Honestly I don't think it's ever "Weird" to be a virgin. Its admirable in most cases.


in what country its admirable to be a virgin?