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Disrarge on 07 February 2011
twesterm said:

Ok, I'm really not trying to sound heartless but the fact you're here and worrying about people not telling you what to do instead of asking yourself what you did to make her say that says a lot.

Figure out why she said that and then figure out what to do.

Also, 10 VG$ says this is NFG...



Trust me I've lurked here a while. This is not NFG. It's her spliced with carmina2008... The horror.



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Tino Vainamoinen on 07 February 2011
Chairman-Mao said:
Tino Vainamoinen said:
Chairman-Mao said:
Tino Vainamoinen said:

thanks for all your help and support I knew I was alone


You're not alone. I love you so much :)


I didn't say this...don't retype it and act like I said something I OBVIOUSLY didn't say.

It's wrong to fabricate other words...

lol you deny saying that? Check your 2nd post. 

Oh sorry I SERIOUSLY DON'T POSTING THAT!



Tino Vainamoinen on 07 February 2011
twesterm said:

Ok, I'm really not trying to sound heartless but the fact you're here and worrying about people not telling you what to do instead of asking yourself what you did to make her say that says a lot.

Figure out why she said that and then figure out what to do.

Also, 10 VG$ says this is NFG...


It is me...I've been here since my original ban....I'm asking what would YOU do



twesterm on 07 February 2011
Tino Vainamoinen said:
twesterm said:

Ok, I'm really not trying to sound heartless but the fact you're here and worrying about people not telling you what to do instead of asking yourself what you did to make her say that says a lot.

Figure out why she said that and then figure out what to do.

Also, 10 VG$ says this is NFG...


It is me...I've been here since my original ban....I'm asking what would YOU do

In that case I would need context.

If I didn't actually care about the person, I'd continue not to care.

If I did care but didn't know what I did, I would find out what I did.

If I did care and knew what I had done, it really depends on what I had done.  Some things can easily be forgotten or forgiven, some things take time, and other can never be forgiven.



 

Kasz216 on 08 February 2011
Rath said:

Offer her a nice hot cup of harden the fuck up?

 

If you haven't done anything wrong she's probably just depressed, like proper depressed. So just kind of stick it out.


That or... "what the fuck are you talking about?"

Even if someone doesn't want to be my friend anymore, I sure as hell want to know why they said that.



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BoneArk on 08 February 2011

U need to talk to her again and settle this situation. I'm guessing u did something bad to her and she got really upset. Just apologize and hopefully u can smile again with your friend.



                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                   

trashleg on 11 February 2011

young girls are just like that.. my "best friend" in school used to want to stage fallouts all the time, just for the drama of it. i couldnt be arsed, and told her as much, so she would fall out with me for real just for the drama. she'd stand up in the cafeteria and yell at me. shit like:

"why do you always talk about BOOKS, why cant you talk about BOYS for a change?!?" dead loud, and storm away. just for the pure drama.

for some reason i cant grasp, everyone (students and teachers) loved her.

of course i kept forgiving her, no questions asked, without even thinking about it. then one day i just realised that we were very very different and she wasnt really my friend, just using me for the attention she wanted. we did have some good times tho, and now we chat every now and again (on facebook, its good enough for me lol).

when i started high school i met my current best friend. we've never fallen out once, and i've known her for 11 years. love her to bits.



Highwaystar101 said: trashleg said that if I didn't pay back the money she leant me, she would come round and break my legs... That's why people call her trashleg, because she trashes the legs of the people she loan sharks money to.
Rainbow Yoshi on 11 February 2011

Well this is obviously caused by an incident or a series incidents, if she is doing this for no particular reason then I would question why you are friends with her.



Tino Vainamoinen on 11 February 2011
trashleg said:

young girls are just like that.. my "best friend" in school used to want to stage fallouts all the time, just for the drama of it. i couldnt be arsed, and told her as much, so she would fall out with me for real just for the drama. she'd stand up in the cafeteria and yell at me. shit like:

"why do you always talk about BOOKS, why cant you talk about BOYS for a change?!?" dead loud, and storm away. just for the pure drama.

for some reason i cant grasp, everyone (students and teachers) loved her.

of course i kept forgiving her, no questions asked, without even thinking about it. then one day i just realised that we were very very different and she wasnt really my friend, just using me for the attention she wanted. we did have some good times tho, and now we chat every now and again (on facebook, its good enough for me lol).

when i started high school i met my current best friend. we've never fallen out once, and i've known her for 11 years. love her to bits.

aww...

but to the other things you mentioned, both me and her are at the bottom of everyone social life. Me and her went through the same things, like divorce, abuse, made fun of...so one and so forth. but suddenly she been acting like a total bitch, like:

She's getting an attitude, she's dating and flirting with every man KNOWN TO MAN(lol), She's trying to put things(like she has more friends than me, and she has relationships and blah blah blah) in my face. like today she said "I DON'T CARE SHE HAS NO RIGHT TO BE ANGRY AT ME, I DON'T CARE, I DIDN'T DO ANYTHING, BUT I DON'T F*CKING CARE!" isn't that nice she doesn't care but was talking about it?

I also heard her talk about her dad saying he was a stalker for trying to get her grades and how he's spamming her phone, when honestly my dad doesn't even call once...I haven't talked to him since about maybe Christmas... But you know it all could be me...

yeah me and her had some AMAZING ASS TIMES TOGETHER...but like you said...maybe we are different? I should make a Venn diagram or SOMETHING?

P.S. IT'S NIGHT I'M TIRED so sorry for the disorganization and spelling.