what would you do if your best friend said "you have always hurt me"?

[twesterm]

Tino Vainamoinen said:

twesterm said:

Ok, I'm really not trying to sound heartless but the fact you're here and worrying about people not telling you what to do instead of asking yourself what you did to make her say that says a lot.

Figure out why she said that and then figure out what to do.

Also, 10 VG$ says this is NFG...

It is me...I've been here since my original ban....I'm asking what would YOU do

In that case I would need context.

If I didn't actually care about the person, I'd continue not to care.

If I did care but didn't know what I did, I would find out what I did.

If I did care and knew what I had done, it really depends on what I had done.  Some things can easily be forgotten or forgiven, some things take time, and other can never be forgiven.