I'm happy to see a thread with the word nostalgia in the same sentence as Final Fantasy VIII. Because I thought I was the only one who had some sort of nostalgic connection to FF8.
Final Fantasy VIII wasn't my first jrpg. But I had limited exposure to jrpgs before playing it. My first jrpg ever was Dragon Warrior (Quest) II in 1993 for the NES. I hated that game then. It wasn't until 1998 when I had played Diablo (PC) and a bit of Pokemon Red/Blue (Gameboy) that I sort of "got" the RPG thing and had a greater understanding of the mechanics that I started to appreciate that game. Also in 1993 I had played The Magic of Scheherazade, which was like half-turn based jrpg, half-Zelda. I enjoyed that more than DQII, though once again I really didn't fully get the mechanics behind it to truly appreciate it. And only reason why I invested so much time in it is because I didn't really have much else to play at the time to be honest.
I didn't have a SNES growing up and I didn't grow up with the RPGs on the Genesis either. Back in the early 90s I was aware of the name "Final Fantasy". And I was well aware of Final Fantasy VII but I didn't really give FF7 much thought right away when I first got the PS1. I went straight to the sports games first (hey I was a Genesis gamer) and Metal Gear Solid (I played the original Metal Gear on the NES back in the day actually but I was truly blown away by the cinematic-esque cutscenes of MGS at the time). And I had never played the Final Fantasies growing up in the 8-bit and 16-bit days.
So when I had played FF8, it was like a very new experience to me. I had a bit of familiarity with rpgs but I had never played a story-heavy rpg before (I did come off playing Metal Gear Solid though, another story-heavy game). And the story in FF8 really resonated with me at the time. I could really relate to Squall's character and the whole love story theme was nice (lots of FF7 fans hated it). The gameplay was nothing all that great. But I had this motivation to keep playing because I wanted to uncover more of the story. It was a really fun ride then.
I have fond memories of the enjoyment that FF8 brought me. Though if I were to replay this game 11 years later, I don't know if I'd really truly appreciate it the way I did then. If I want a solid story, I don't need to suffer through boring gameplay for it. I can just play a visual novel (to be honest, I think this genre has ruined a large portion of the jrpg genre for me. Visual novels do the story thing better than jrpgs while being a lot less tedious in many cases), watch anime/tv/movies, read manga or a novel (not much of a novel reader though I have to admit) and get an experience that is superior to FF8 or Metal Gear Solid was for me. But because that level of story telling in video games was a novelty for me at the time, it was something truly special to me then.
As for FF7 and the older FFs, FF7 was my second so I don't really have the nostalgic connection to it than I do FF8. And while FF4 and FF6 had that story-heavy focus as well and I had enjoyed wasting my time then with those games (lol), I played those in 2000/2001, not in the 16-bit heyday. As for FF13, honestly I tuned out. The story bored me. The gameplay I liked.