This is what i wront on another thread that gave the idea of making this thread
Honestly Xbox live should not be worth more than PSN. I can't believe people would $50 a year (including me). Hopefully this will be my 12 month which will be expiring in february. Its ironic that xbox live costs $50-$60 a year but PSN has more games with dedicated servers. And xbox live has maybe 1 or 2 and then gears 3 which is long overdue for dedicated servers. I guess you can justify paying $60 a year just because xbox live, is more user friendly(it might not be for some of you), has more people, and cross game chat, but it's still not worth it. Microsoft has people locked up to believe that xbox live really is better and thats why so many people would pay $60. In reality though xbox live is not much better than PSN.
In case you don't believe me about PS3 having dedicated servers here is a pic of the warhawk servers









