As long as she's really fat?

I was seeking something long-term at the time and I see alot of guy friends as a red flag also. One of my friends is currently having an issue with his gf, she has alot of guy friends and some of them like to show up at her house later than friends should be. One of my exes has alot of guy friends...i'm prtty sure you put the rest together, she  cheated on me with one of her "friends".

Wow... okay here...

If a woman sais to you that she has a lot of guy friends chances are she's 17-25 or has the mind of a 17 - 25 year old. But enough of that, the problem isn't her it's you. As a man you need to look at her and deduce what you want, if it's sex then go for that, if it's love then good luck with that, if it's friendship then you know what to do.

In otherwords whoever she's with doesnt matter if they are guys that are friends it doesn't matter. All she's saying is she's a tomboy or a wanna be tomboy.

Women are women, they aren't guys and that goes deeper than simply anatomy. Women think like women do, all you need to do again is know what you want. If that's too much to digest then I guess you'll have to deal with the consequences.

 I live a soulless and  opportunist life style, make up, anger, get back, friendship, love, pain, adventure, whatever, casual and anythings means nothing, basically I know I'm nothing special and because of that hearing a woman has lots of guy friends doesn't change my agenda... whatever it is.  Just saying if it's love your looking for then your already being silly about it.  - Women aren't objects to be owned.

lol at these statements saying friends don't matter. I don't understand how anyone can deny that friends have impact on relationships, from personal experience and witnessing what a friend is going through I can safely say it does. This is not absolute for all relationships but as a guy I can say that most guys are "friends" with hot girls for a reason. I never said I wanted marry or own her I said talking meaning getting to know her. Anyway, if people can break up over money or video games I can assure they break up over friends.

Well, from what I know of the female species (which is very little) it's that they're much much less liekly to cheat than a guy, and sex doesn't dominate their mind.

You need to evalute what kind of guy friends she has and go from there ... they could be decent and respect that she's with someone.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1211104/Think-men-unfaithful-sex-A-study-shows-WOMEN-biggest-cheats--theyre-just-better-lying-it.html

Someone made comment about reading that 60% of married women cheat or something like that but yeah....women are better liars lol.

Not at all. Worst case scenario she/he has some insufferable ones, but thats nothing. It is easy to avoid the annoying ones, and occasional suffer through the rare occasions that it is unavoidable. To give you background on my relationships, the current one is the kind where we are getting married next summer, and I can't stand a few of her friends.

I always thought women didn't have sex drives :/ lol then again I've never been there so I know jack. Oh well!

If you break up over friends then you never had anything resembling a strong relationship. It is the silliest of all reasons. You don't date their friends. Their friends are not dating you. Be civil, and politely avoid each other as much as possible. So long as you give the person time and space to hang out with their friends there will never be a problem.

My advice will be to proceed with caution.

A girl with a lot of guy friends is a large set of possibilities of what could happen. I had experienced that two times and while the first was a total failure and my heart still hurts for what she did to me (I don't want to see her again in my life), the second time ended up well and hopefully we will marry next year. 

If you want to date her, I see no problem in that but do not get your hopes up too much. Use the date as an opportunity to get to know her and more about her relationship with her guy friends. It will help you make a choice of moving forward or just be friends.

- Keep your head cool and control your emotions as much as you can.

- Do NOT take her advances towards you as a good sign. be 50% skeptical

- If you feel she trusts you a bit more. try having a small conversation about her friends. No direct questions. A good strategy is to talk about your life with your friends, so that she might start opening on that matter by herself

- It might sound hard, but after the date try to look for a chance, at a later date, to be with her and some of her friends. Pay attention to their behavior