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Can you date girl that has alot of guys friends?

no, to many guys = problems 105 46.46%
 
yes, man up bitch! 119 52.65%
 
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Why would it be a problem? Do you have the urge to sleep with all of her friends and feel you just couldn't if it was a guy?

Who she is friends with is almost entirely irrelevant. Chances are she has no sexual interest with any of them at all. If she did then why wouldn't she be dating them? If you can't trust someone to be faithful regardless of the gender of her friemd then you will never have a good relationship.



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It depends on the girl...

As long as the girl is trustworthy it dosen't matter.  If she's not, why were you intersted in her anyway.

If you can't trust any girl who has a lot of guy friends... your likely just paranoid and it's going to be tough for you in general to hold a trusting relationship.

Shit, cheating isn't the end of the world, just the end of a relationship you shouldn't of been in anyway.



I dated a girl who had way more guy friends than girl friends and she just ended up cheating on me with many of said friends.  So, I would say no.  Besides, guys who are "friends" with hot girls are generally interested in more than just friendship.



I do date a girl with a lot of guy friends, and plan to marry her.

 

Oh yeah, and she lives half the country away. It'll all buff out, don't worry.



Gnizmo said:

Why would it be a problem? Do you have the urge to sleep with all of her friends and feel you just couldn't if it was a guy?

Who she is friends with is almost entirely irrelevant. Chances are she has no sexual interest with any of them at all. If she did then why wouldn't she be dating them? If you can't trust someone to be faithful regardless of the gender of her friemd then you will never have a good relationship.

Fail. i don't know what kind of relationships you have/had but friends of your gf/bf does matter.



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Kasz216 said:

It depends on the girl...

As long as the girl is trustworthy it dosen't matter.  If she's not, why were you intersted in her anyway.

If you can't trust any girl who has a lot of guy friends... your likely just paranoid and it's going to be tough for you in general to hold a trusting relationship.

Shit, cheating isn't the end of the world, just the end of a relationship you shouldn't of been in anyway.

well the whole point of taking is to get to know the person right?  I was talking meaning getting to know her.



SmoothCriminal said:

I do date a girl with a lot of guy friends, and plan to marry her.

 

Oh yeah, and she lives half the country away. It'll all buff out, don't worry.

I think you're an idealistic dreamer man.  More power to you.



It's entirely possible for a guy to have a lasting purely-platonic close friendship with a female.

I think it's a potential redflag (that is if are seeking a long-term monagamous relationship) when a girl has mostly guy friends though. If a girl doesn't have many girlfriends but yet many guy friends, something is up. Like adriane said, girls who are like that tend to be attention whores and see potential female friends as threats. Or she may just simply be a slut. Women tend not to like promiscous women because they see promiscous women as competitive threats. When I think back to every girl I've known in my life who fit this profile, she was a slut. I'm willing to accept that there may be exceptions to the rule though. I just haven't seen any in real life yet.



My father always told me that a guy and a girl never can be good friends without an hidden intention;

When I was young I was like 'My dad and his stupid theories' but now I must say their is some truth in it;

Most of girl-friends where girls I wanted to be friend with and also some told me they really liked me and want to start a relation;.. 


Could I date an girl with many friends...Considering last week I read an article that 60% of the women said they cheated on their husband after the first two years of relation and I am an bit jealous...I prefer to have a girl with not to many guy friends...



 

loves2splooge said:

It's entirely possible for a guy to have a lasting purely-platonic close friendship with a female.

I think it's a potential redflag (that is if are seeking a long-term monagamous relationship) when a girl has mostly guy friends though. If a girl doesn't have many girlfriends but yet many guy friends, something is up. Like adriane said, girls who are like that tend to be attention whores and see potential female friends as threats. Or she may just simply be a slut. Women tend not to like promiscous women because they see promiscous women as competitive threats. When I think back to every girl I've known in my life who fit this profile, she was a slut. I'm willing to accept that there may be exceptions to the rule though. I just haven't seen any in real life yet.

Or, you know.  She could be more interseted in stuff like Videogames, Sports and anime and therefore find it much easier to make friends along common interests with guys.