The only logical thing to do would be for him to flee to North Korea.
The only logical thing to do would be for him to flee to North Korea.
oh great idea...
have him set up a meeting.... and you show up instead, saying he sent you cause he couldn't come, then you work your magic, charm the girl and problem solved.
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| voty2000 said: The problem isn't paranoia it's cowardice. Instead of telling the girl the truth and giving her closure in the situation you want to string her along and let her think there is a chance in the future for her to get with your friend. I met a girl in 7th grade and we were good friends until we graduated. She told me before we went to college that if I asked, she would marry me. I knew I would never marry her and I told her straight up. I honestly cried because I lost a dear friendship and I missed her and she was hurt. 6 years later she marries another guy and now we are hanging out again. These situations suck but you have to deal with it and not give her the run around. A bunch of people in this thread have said to be honest and you ignore those posts. Man up and take responsibility. |
On the contrary, I wanna devise a plan so she doesn't get such an ideea. He most likely will have to lose her as a friend anyways, as it's the best way to get rid of a possible impediment in staying closeted (the impediment being Pam). And are you actually saying that he should tell her he's bi and has a boyfriend???
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| dunno001 said: Oh yeah, one other question, sorry- where is he meeting her tomorrow? That would depend on what the escape routes should be... |
I haven't talked to him yet today. As soon as I see him on MSN or I visit him we'll start talking about his alternatives. Thanks again for taking this seriously and actually giving plausible solutions.
"I don't understand how someone could like Tolstoy and Dostoyevsky, but not like Twilight!!!"
"Last book I read was Brokeback Mountain, I just don't have the patience for them unless it's softcore porn."
(The Voice of a Generation and Seece)
"If you cant stand the sound of your own voice than dont become a singer !!!!!"
(pizzahut451)
| FaRmLaNd said: The only logical thing to do would be for him to flee to North Korea. |
LOL, of course! Why haven't I thought of this yet?! The answer to all life's problems is fleeing to North Korea. Silly me
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"I don't understand how someone could like Tolstoy and Dostoyevsky, but not like Twilight!!!"
"Last book I read was Brokeback Mountain, I just don't have the patience for them unless it's softcore porn."
(The Voice of a Generation and Seece)
"If you cant stand the sound of your own voice than dont become a singer !!!!!"
(pizzahut451)
well he could just say he doesn't like her that way. Technically he is telling the the truth the whole truth and nothing but the truth so help him god haha.
I figured I throw in some religious spin into it, since everything else has been covered lol.
| Cobretti2 said: well he could just say he doesn't like her that way. Technically he is telling the the truth the whole truth and nothing but the truth so help him god haha.
I figured I throw in some religious spin into it, since everything else has been covered lol. |
Hmmm, true no one has mentiond that yet. He's not very religious though, but he could say something along the lines of: "I've had avision of Jesus and from now on I'm not gonna even look at a woman unless she intends to become my wife." Of course that could obviously backfire if the girl's a little crazy.
"I don't understand how someone could like Tolstoy and Dostoyevsky, but not like Twilight!!!"
"Last book I read was Brokeback Mountain, I just don't have the patience for them unless it's softcore porn."
(The Voice of a Generation and Seece)
"If you cant stand the sound of your own voice than dont become a singer !!!!!"
(pizzahut451)
haha yer, but in all honesty if he just says he isn't into her that way is all he needs to say.
| Cobretti2 said: haha yer, but in all honesty if he just says he isn't into her that way is all he needs to say. |
Lol, yeah I think I'm just cantaminating the poor guy with my paranoya. Still doesn't hurt to plan ahead in delicate situations like this that could potentially lead to tragedy.
"I don't understand how someone could like Tolstoy and Dostoyevsky, but not like Twilight!!!"
"Last book I read was Brokeback Mountain, I just don't have the patience for them unless it's softcore porn."
(The Voice of a Generation and Seece)
"If you cant stand the sound of your own voice than dont become a singer !!!!!"
(pizzahut451)
sapphi_snake said:
LOL, of course! Why haven't I thought of this yet?! The answer to all life's problems is fleeing to North Korea. Silly me |
The chairman is pleased with your understanding and humility when faced with the greatness of North Korea. It truly is the answer to all of lifes problems.