The Official How to get laid thread. NSF-18

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donathos said:

Bedding women requires no specific strategy; it's a numbers game, and as long as you put yourself out there consistently enough, and know *what* you want (that is, to get laid), and aren't afraid of that... eventually, you'll wind up with women who want what you want, too.

Being a player is being a salesman, and sales is sales. The thing I've found, however, is that doing it "right" involves a mind-set that is kind of erosive against the mentality required for long-term, "normal" relationships.

The most effective players I've known in my life essentially saw women as a commodity, and had no respect for them as people. The more you care about women individually, the less willing you'll be to do "what needs to be done" to seduce them and move on. And the less you care about women individually, the less able you'll be to eventually have a healthy relationship with any given one.

I'm not saying it's necessarily better or worse than any other relationship approach, just that there's a trade-off. And the trade-off should be considered ahead of time.

 

ETA: Uh, but yeah, massages work really well in my experience. Especially foot massages.

I don't think that being a player will make you care less about women individually, i mean, it's all about having fun with a lot of women and one day finding the right one. It won't make you think of them as disposable, and it's not like you should have them on a pedestal.

Players don't disrespect women. Or at least shouldn't...