Ask DR PSOCK

[Flow]

psrock said:

Flow said:
No, look, the biggest problem is her...

I asked him before and he said it was ok, still, he is preety pissed at us both now. Well, then he should have said something, what is done is done and he ain't getting in my way now. Also, he lied a lot to me, and our friendship was already getting weaker.

It's her that don't wanna accept the serious relationship, but she don't wanna let go what we are having now. She says she needs more time because she just left a relationship but come on... It's definitely him, playing some mind games with her. She is afraid of destroying my friendship with him and afraid of being called a wh*** or something.

You know, things are not so bad in this casual relationship, but i don't wanna lose her and it would be easier to keep the interest level high if we were really together. I'm new to this almost-boyfriend game lol. Also, would be much better if i could spend the day with her.

I feel like i should man up and give her an ultimatum or something, or get face to face with my friend and tell him to stop being so childish. But i don't know if i should do something like this or just wait for her to get over it and stay with me.

 

Any serious relationship with her will seriouly kill your friendship anway. IT would be to weird for both of them to be around anyway. Now, i am questioning her intentions, You have to be clear that it needs to more than just fooling around. And, from m experiences, she still loves him.

Way before dumping him she said how he was an ass and such... Now, she tells me how i'm much better than him and tells me every word he speak to her.

He's been trying everything to get her back, and this just sparks discussion between them and she always have the upper hand on the arguments while he just acts childish. He tried to make me look bad in front of her, didn't worked too...Damn, i didn't knew how much a person would go for this, he even blackmailed her, nothing serious though. He tried to steal a kiss from her too, she backed away. Also, her body language never shows positive to him, not that i noticed, but i will try to notice more.

After all that he have done to her and me, this friendship is going nowhere...

When you said "You have to be clear that it needs to more than just fooling around", you mean her or me? I mean, she's not the kind of girl who just want some fun with the guys, a lot of guys try hitting on her but they get nothing lol. And as i said, she's a little too obsessed to just want to fool around, i think, lol.

If you mean me, i've made it cristal clear, still, i can't bring myself to forget this =P