@ makingmusic476
Same here, it's personal preference. I have large hands and never owned a Playstation before and before owning a PS3 I had actually played more with the 360 controller.
I think the controller layout is much better and the default size suitable for more varying hand sizes. Personally I don't mind the original Sixaxis being light at all, actually it makes me forget about the controller more so. Rumble if implemented well can add to the experience, like vibrating to the beat of the gun, but it can also be implemented badly so it becomes more of a distraction to me.
With regard to people with smaller hands they usually seem to prefer the Playstation controller, my girlfriend and my kid sister both got muscle cramps from using the 360 controller too much. So the 360 controller doesn't seem very suitable for small hands, I can manage but my gf can't which gave me an unfair advantage while playing games like DOA4 against each other.
