Looking for definitions will never get anywhere, at most it will serve for people to stick with definitions to start/win arguments on the internet. Also each one is entitled to thir own opinions and different people will have different red lines on what makes a game woke.
All I can say is that if that person, whatever is their gender, will be the protagonist of the game then I have no interest whatsoever in playing it.
Not selling for me will have no impact for the company as I was told I am on a minority and modern audiences are the vast majority today. I wish success to the developers though.