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EricHiggin said:

Relationships don't require marriage. A failed marriage is divorce. You can say its a legal thing but how is being separate from a previous marriage really any different from being separate from a deeply loved relationship, or someone you had a child with, etc?

They were separated a decade earlier. They were not together for over a decade, when Harris was in the picture.

She didn't "ruin" a marriage by any of the definitions you're trying to throw out.

They never got a divorce, and they weren't in a romantic relationship together for over a decade before he dated Harris. 

EricHiggin said:

Again? What was the context of the conversation I was replying to? Does context not matter?

The original context was basically that people can change. 

But your framing of Harris's past was dishonest.