Well most of them have been getting fixed. The Last of Us got patched, Jedi Suvivor and now Forspoken. Only Hogwarts is the only AAA game that is still having big issues with 8GB. Not to say Nvidia's decision to ship GPUs with 8GB is the correct one but it goes to show that the issue was never about the current crop of games needing more but rather they were simply unoptimized.
PC Specs: CPU: 7800X3D || GPU: Strix 4090 || RAM: 32GB DDR5 6000 || Main SSD: WD 2TB SN850