Some people may judge you on your hands but it'll likely be a very small amount.
The major aspects people look into when it comes to dating/marriage when it comes to appearance is height, weight and hair (on head).
Height you'll be surprised especially on how finicky people can be.
I'm 5'8" but still taller than majority of women where I live, now the question is how many of them only date 6'0 guys lol.
Sadly I don't have much hair on my head anymore, just like my father before me.