Video games is an escape. Just like using drugs. It’s not real life. If real life was as great as we want it to be we wouldn’t use drugs.
I used to get geeked on games. It wasn’t until my life got so bad, that I had no choice but to face it head on, that I gave up my geekdom.
To me real life was friends, a sexual partner, and a purpose that paid well enough. Hopefully you will find what you really want in life.
Start with getting a job if you don’t already have one. Works wonders.