Yeah, what Yuri suggested of making your controller wired to see if it works that way should've been troubleshooting step number 1
I have a Series X controller with the Xbox Wireless Adapter for Windows and it works flawlessly.
https://www.amazon.com/Microsoft-Xbox-Wireless-Adapter-Windows-one/dp/B00ZB7W4QU
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