| SegaHeart said: I'm gonna die without having a kid am I? I'm gonna turn 35 this year and I'm still a loner. If I hit my 40th birthday I will still not have a family like I always wanted. Well 5 years left till I become a person without a daughter/son that'll look up to me? I'm not in my 20's anymore to be single still. |
Well firstly, start my working out what you want your life to be before you start dating. In the other thread you said you sleep with men too. Now if that is something you want to continue, then your profile needs to be honest about it. Can't just hook up with a girl knock her up and then expect her to be cool about it. You can't also hide the urges for years then come out with it. It is not fair on the girl.
Looks are great an all but at the end of the day we all age, looks vanish. You have to be able to tolerate the person living with you daily. That far outweighs any physical attributes.
Also in reality a person that is say a 5-7 will in the long run be better because most people who are 9-10 use way over the top make up to maintain their look or lots of plastic surgery to keep looking younger. Natural beauty ages better than beauty people make for themselves by spending hours into it each day.
If you are 35 and jobless that also needs to be addressed or you nee to set your bar far lower. Women don't want a child they need to support for a husband, they want a husband that can support a child. You have to better your life in order to catch better fish. Otherwise you chasing unrealistic unicorns.
