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JRPGfan said:
JRPGfan said:

When I opened the thread, and saw the OP was Curl-6, Im like "I know that guy", your not just some random user here.
I was abit bummed, usually a thread with "I have a tumor" doesnt end well.

Glad it turn out to be benign, Curl.
Best of wishes on your recovery.

Two years ago,....  little did I know, what the future would hold.

I saw this thread in the "hot topics" collum, and it hit me.

My grandmom, recently died to cancer.

Apparently she had a tumor growing (uterus), but after haveing already had surgery/kemo once before (cancer) (years ago), she wasnt eager to go through that ordeal again. So she kept quiet about it. She complained about been weak or in pain, and no one knew anything was wrong with her (but herself, she hid it well). So outta the blue, within a periode of 1 month, just got so bad she was hospitalised, and 2 weeks lateron she was dead.  That was like 2 months ago.

My dad, about 6 months ago, got the news that he had a tumor growing on his liver (stage 4-5 liver cancer).
Apparently its terminal (ei. they cant remove it, or treat it), he had some pills (kemo thingy) that he couldn't handle (were supposed to prolong his life, possibly in the range of 5-10 years). He had some surgery to aid in some of the faults that pop-up from haveing a damaged liver.... which ofc didn't go well either.  He's now in a hospice, and probably only has months left.

In short..... screw cancer.

Wish my dad'd treatment had gone better, covid19 sure as hell didn't help things any.

I feel for you, stage 4-5 liver cancer sucks. In fact it was the starting point for the deaths in my family. It was sudden and it was my great uncle, died in the same time frame of about 6 months and completely incurable. My great grandparents were still alive and they were obviously sad about losing a son, maybe it affected their health I don't know. But I went to Japan, then the 3 deaths came. First my Great Grandma, then my Great Grandpa, then the hardest was my Grandma 1 year ago.

Don't let it affect you too much. Keep strong!